I absolutely hate it when some dumb ____ says that to me.
Okay why am I ranting about that? Story is that last night I did horrible at my tasks at work. Not such a perfect of a coworker didn't tell me till
the end of the night instead of doing while I'm screwing up, that's a story for another lifetime.
Anyway, he said go home and get some rest and what not. I snickered at that and he went off about ____ing easy we got it, toward me and the summer
help who has 80k in student loans (I had 40k and less than 10k to go after 6 years) to look forward to paying back in a few years. His whole rant was
about how I don't have anything to keep me up at night because I don't have rent/mortgage and that student loans weren't even close. That's such utter
bs in its own right
What really is grinding my gears is the fact I tried to tell him about the bs I go through when I get home. He wouldn't hear none of it but just kept
going about the mortgage and taking care of house ____ like that's the end all be all of problems to keep you up at night. I've got news for him, in
my case, a mortgage and a house to take care of would actually be easier on me.
What could be worse you ask? How does living with your parents sound? Okay, many people do, but how many live with one who wants total control over
everyone in every way they can? They want such control of their family members that they think that their prayers influenced one to marry his sister.
That had nothing to do with how they're a good match and care about each other a lot; nope, some schmuch who for years has been ignoring the signs of
God to change his ways of misery.
Every day I come home, I have to hear about how my sister isn't doing things the way my dad wants her to do. The endless hours of whining of that and
the fact that my niece and nephew are the only grandchildren of my sister's husband's mother gets so much time with them. Might have something to do
with the fact that my dad is a tyrant rather than a dad or gramdpa? Nah, just that the other grandmother doesn't let anyone else have time with them.
I have to hear this every day.
Every day I come home from second shift, I don't get to sleep till about 1 or later. Around 6-7 in the morning, my dad has to play his stereo at
volumes as if it's mid day. I can't say anything about the fact I'm trying to sleep with out him flipping ____. But omg if I was working 3rd shift and
was the weekend where I don't work but want to stay on the schedule and play on my computer, I get it for the keyboard noise.
I come home to people who believe the USA was like Leave it to Beaver when Grease was more accurate. They're stuck in the 50's and 60's. I have to
hear the rants on people of alternative lifestyles constantly, which I support LGBT. Also, the racism is just intolerable.
I have to live with someone who's whole mission in life is to be as miserable as possible and make everyone around them miserable as possible. I just
spent a week at my dad's sister's house. They wonder how I'm not in a padded stall. She even can't stand the fact during parties at my house, which
all parties are at my house because all relatives are tired of his whining when they have something at their places, is so uncomfortable. It could be
the hottest day on record and the whole family is outside where it's actually cooler in the sun. My dad will not put the AC on; when someone finally
does, I have to hear about how weak they're making my niece and nephew for trying to do such as a shameful as being comfortable. Can you imagine the
nerve? Shouldn't say too much about it, because parties are the only times this house actually gets cleaned...somewhat.
I have to deal every day with some who doesn't let go of anything. I mean, I have to hear about how horrible my grandfather was to my dad (oh the
irony of how what I hear my dad complain about is exactly what he is doing). And I don't mean stuff like in the past 10 years, I'm talking about stuff
that happened before my parents were even married. My dad completely rejects the idea of that Disney song. And I have to hear about it almost daily,
now that my grandfather is dead I'm not expecting to have it stop completely.
An argument weekly about one thing or another, where my dad is just contradicting me. He has no idea what I'm talking, but he's right. Oh, and he's so
right and perfect, he can do no wrong. So much so that he can't comprehend how his words may have hurt someone, you know, because he can't do any
I have to hear constantly about how much work needs to be done on this house. Yet he's been retired for years now and not one thing has been done when
there's actually time to do it. And even if he did, it would be probably be done wrong but of course he can't do anything wrong. My entire family is
still in shock that he actually did anything about the room I sleep in now, before it was my sister's and it was horrible wallpaper who he wouldn't
change it for. I even got to choose the colors and what was done.
How about living with a person who I am totally convinced that his employer, the city government, was trying everything to get rid of him. Why?
Because how abrasive he can be toward people. The city more than likely want to remove him as quickly as possible to avoid the eventual lawsuit that
would come about from how he would react to ordinary citizens.
Oh, let's not forget, final bit. Any problems you got, like physically, my dad has got it worse. Trust me on this, yeah he's in pain. Two accidents
and an attempted murder by a coworker; he is hurting. But if you ask him; it's one accident, attempted murder by a coworker, and attempted murder by
Yeah, so I should be so greatful for the fact that I live in this house for "free." You know, because that coworker's mortgage and house is so much
worse. How about living with someone who's own brother and sister that can't stand them. Everyone has problems, why do you think it right for you to
demean mine or anyone else's? Nope, I'm just an ungrateful little ____ like the rest of the mellennials.
edit on 8-6-2016 by misterhistory
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