A Question for Bi-curious Men

a reply to: grainofsand

I need to learn more about my circle. Wouldn't be here for any other reason. I think all have a general attraction to the same sex at some point. Tis only their choice to act upon those desires.

a reply to: ExternalForces

I meant my social circles in real life, not on screens, just to be sure
I don't wanna troll the OP's thread either, just had to comment when an opinion was expressed as an assertion that there is only gay and straight.
Absolute rubbish, there is everything in between that, and more when it comes to sexual attraction.
I cannot imagine the sheltered world a person must live in to believe there is only straight and gay.
...how does a straight guy such as myself personally know people who are bisexual if they don't exist?
Ah that's right, I get out once in a while

a reply to: ExternalForces

What do you find attractive about men?

a reply to: grainofsand

I think it is a matter of perspective and doubt the belief that one is either straight or gay has anything to do with being sheltered. I had a boyfriend who did not identify as bisexual, but I was about 98 percent sure he was. I asked my good gay friend (not a sheltered person) about it and he told me point blank that there is no such thing as bisexual. You are either one or the other, he said.

Now, I certainly believe bisexuality is very real. I know people who identify as bisexual and so does my friend. But I think because my friend is only, solely attracted to men, he assumes others attracted to the same sex are the same way he is. If a man is with a girl but attracted to the same sex, my friend assumes he is a closeted gay man. Again just a matter of perspective.

a reply to: grainofsand

You're fine. No apologies needed.

a reply to: TsukiLunar

What kind of question is that?
He finds attraction for whatever reason, no more added value is needed.

a reply to: grainofsand

I know a couple of people who have said they were bi but it's my opinion that there is no in between.

The one girl I know that says she is bi also says she's gay if we are having a discussion on certain topics.


Again just my opinion no disrespect.

a reply to: TruthLover557

So just a bull# unsubstantiated assertion by the poster then?
That's what I thought.

a reply to: TsukiLunar

See that's where the line of being quiet comes in. There are plenty of reasons none the less; but how many will you know, is that the real test? I will start with masculinity, attitude, and the way they anger. For I know it so, there isn't much danger. But wish to know all, you do. For I need to learn more also about you too.

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: ExternalForces

I meant my social circles in real life, not on screens, just to be sure

I don't wanna troll the OP's thread either, just had to comment when an opinion was expressed as an assertion that there is only gay and straight.
Absolute rubbish, there is everything in between that, and more when it comes to sexual attraction.
I cannot imagine the sheltered world a person must live in to believe there is only straight and gay.
...how does a straight guy such as myself personally know people who are bisexual if they don't exist?
Ah that's right, I get out once in a while

No need to be sassy over ones opinion.

a reply to: thesaneone

No disrespect taken, or presented towards yourself by me.
But "There is only gay or straight!" as an assertion was always going to be challenged by somebody...and I felt the urge this evening.

a reply to: grainofsand

Unless one is feeling trustworthy.

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: TruthLover557

So just a bull# unsubstantiated assertion by the poster then?
That's what I thought.

Like I said puddin it was my opinion and never said it was fact.

a reply to: ExternalForces

Hahaha good luck with that with online strangers!

a reply to: thesaneone

Didn't know sarcasm could be mistaken as sassy. Coming from a gay male I would think one may presume sasiness instead of sarcasm.

a reply to: grainofsand

From what I've read I think "strangers" is the wrong term to use.

a reply to: thesaneone

Nope, you said this in your initial post which I replied to:

originally posted by: thesaneone
There is no such thing as bi your either gay or straight!

Get it right eh, I would have ignored your opinion if it had been expressed as such and not asserted with an exclamation mark.

a reply to: ExternalForces

If I don't know someone at all then they are strangers, don't really care if such a term is unacceptable though lol

originally posted by: thesaneone

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: TruthLover557

So just a bull# unsubstantiated assertion by the poster then?
That's what I thought.

Like I said puddin it was my opinion and never said it was fact.

Can I ask saneone if you have ever kissed a member of your own sex in a pleasurable way or at least tried please?

Not winding you up just asking?

a reply to: ExternalForces

Maybe I should have said what do you find attractive in a man? There are all kinds of People out there and I was just wondering what the OP saw in the men he was attracted to.