posted on Oct, 14 2014 @ 01:20 PM
a reply to: chiefsmom
I've just excepted the fact that men are only detail oriented on three things. Cars, Women and Sports. Talk to them about anything else, and your
lucky if they remember 1/3 of what you said.
But that dang car that drove by, doing 90? Make Model, color,engine size and the hair color and lipstick of the woman driving it.
LMAO....yep, you nailed it!!
Seriously tho, guys don't like to be bitched at nor treated like a kid
I told a lady friend of mine once, while she was bitchin' and complaining- can't remember what it was about, something stupid tho- upset that her
husband didn't care and I told her that what women consider 'serious' crap guys blow off as 'trivial' crap and all she was doing was getting herself
all worked up for no reason
And she picked a time when he was leaving for work to start her tirade
I've learned over the years what my husband will listen to and what he doesn't care to hear
Out of respect for him and to cut down on my own frustration, I don't worry about his lack of attention on some of the 'trivial' less interesting
But yeah OP, some women can be a pain in the azz!!
It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't kind of relationship and for you guys there, I feel for you, truly I do
Unfortunately, I'm surrounded by women who all they do is gripe and complain about & to their guy....ugh
They make the rest of us women look bad
So I make sure NOT to do that mistake
Love my honey and it bugs me to see him upset, especially if it's because of something I said or did
edit on 14-10-2014 by snarky412 because: spweeeling