spirituality and madness

Just because some of the norm is wrong doesnt mean its all wrong. I dont like conventional things and I dont like tradition in many cases and I have various views that would deem me mentally unhealthy. So I know what I am talking about.

I agree. You can't understand the answer before the question. First understand the question - ask how the person came to this conclusion - and then try to relate it to your own experience. Of course, many people can't or refuse to relate and will just call you crazy. I still have trouble relating sometimes. I have my own biases to work through.