posted on Dec, 1 2008 @ 07:09 PM
I'm an atheist.
I don't believe in the christian god, i don't believe in demons or mayan goddesses or anything like that.... For me, it's all old fashioned,
primitive thinking.
I have considered suicide often, but its not the fear of hell or the temptation of heaven that stops me or compels me, far from it....
It was the realisation that I would never see my best friends again, never see my young sister grow into womanhood or never see my brother change into
the man he wants to be.
At the time, I was homeless, trying drugs, depressed, aimless, jobless, heart broken and betrayed.... I had NOBODY to talk to, my family didn't want
to bare my problems..... my friends didn't seem to care.
I attempted to hang myself with an old shirt, but that failed (miserably in fact, i just started choking on my own saliva).... I sat late one night
beside the railway track, ready to just.... step in front of the train, but my legs turned to lead and I couldn't do it. I didn't have enough money
for an overdose.... Even in my most darkest moment, my fear of heights prevented me from jumping to my death.
I am effectively a failed suicide attempt.
Its the fact that, two years ago i was at the lowest of the low and now i've clawed my way back towards something representing a decent life (I now
have two jobs and I'm studying for a degree) and i'm in a relationship with a beautiful woman, i have my own flat, my family now talk to me and I
have grown up beyond my own despair.
Back then, if someone was to tell me that in two years time, i would have everything back together, i would have called them a filthy liar.
But it's true....
It wasn't God or anything like that which saved me.... It was my own cowardice and yet my own bravery to endure this struggle that is called life.
As for anyone who has lost a loved one through suicide... As an atheist, I would by lying if i told you they are in heaven, but I would also be lying
if i told you they are in hell.
They are at COMPLETE PEACE with the universe, and don't let ANY pseudo-spiritual person tell you otherwise, but for the sake of everyone who loves
you (whether you know this or not) reconsider your thoughts and realise that the world will be a lonelier place without you and there will always be
someone who can help, whether you would like to think so or not...
We will all die one day, but remember if you ever feel that pain, that loneliness or that utter confusion and despair..... Send me a private message
(at least then you can talk to someone who has been through the agony themself i.e me.)
Peace be with you all.
May your days shine bright and may you all be strong.
One Love
Mr - L