Non Compliant Humanoid Behavoir

I was wondering if a humanoid is mentally abusive and manipulative association clearly is not the best answer with that person under any circumstance. However I was wondering is there some form of behavorial modification because the inbread support or propaganda to enforce this type of behavoir is oddly disturbing. I do not understand wasteing an entire life on some family member or something. It is weird. Thats all she says either she is making fun of women for sleeping with drugdealers or I don't know what but I don't want to sit around stressing about "Hey who is gonna get #ed over next" thanks