posted on Jul, 15 2007 @ 01:05 PM
I don't know how old your wife is, but there are times when a woman needs another woman to lean on...they know how you are feeling with various ups
and downs in your life because they have experienced it themselves. For me, as a woman approaching 40, my baby is almost grown, and I have a lot of
things knawing at me. For half of my life, I've been everything to everyone in my family, and I got lost in there somewhere. Does that make any
sense? That's when a good friend can come along and reach out a hand and help pick another woman up....because a man can't be that hand in a time
like that. I have the same problem at my house right now, I need my friends to lean on and because of it, my husband is running about acting like I'm
having an affair. For me personaly, his insecurities are to the point that my every move is being watched. But it's not helping me any, it is pushing
my away...and fast too... it's making me crave solidarity right now!
I feel bad for your wife if you've made her feel uncomfortable to the point that she had to ditch her friend for you. I've said those things to my
friends too, in fact I think I'll call my best friend today and tell her how I miss her terribly. I can even tell her how much I love her...there is
nothing sexual about that! I hope everything works out for you guys, really I mean that
I probably just told you more than you care to know, but
it's true, and things men don't consider because it's something a man can't possibly understand. You did ask for input
All I know is that I almost have an empty nest at my house, and it's forcing me to spend more time with my husband when for the past 20 years I've
spent all that time caring for my children, while he was doing what-ever...and you know what? I feel like I don't really know my husband
anymore...sad but true. It's a weird, somber, panicky and discomforting feeling.
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[edit on 7/15/2007 by jensouth31]