Nothing says "I don't trust you!" like a surprise visit either. It's been my experience that if you just show up out of nowhere on a guys door
step they think you're checking up on them. Of course, that also varies guy to guy and situation to situation.
Of course it's also been my experience that if I showed up unannounced on my guy's doorstep, I actually was checking up on him... Maybe that's why
he thought I didn't trust him.
If i showed up on my girlfriends doorstep unnanounced, i'd be sitting there for hours because she has two jobs and works most days from 9am until 2am
with a 2 hr break in between.... plus it would definately look like i was checking up on her. I'd spend the whole journey (it's 2 hrs because she
lives 100miles away whilst its summer) thinking about what i'd find when i got there anyway, and paranoia is an evil thing! wait, when she didnt
answer my call the other day......
Damn u for starting this thread millerman, ok im off to see her right now, she better be at work or im coming after u!