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_BoneZ_
They're not being charged with bullying, they're being charged with aggravated stalking, which is a 3rd-degree felony. They stalked this girl online, and offline to bully her.
Turning bullying into a felony, maybe after a 3-strikes rule. But bullying needs to be dealt with swiftly and harshly. Bullies need to be sent a message that it is not acceptable, and will not be tolerated.
Had they not bullied her, she would still be alive this very moment.
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Agreed,
Bullying is one of biggest problems because of the young kids commiting suicide, and it should be dealt with very harshly..
The actions of a bully are exactly like aiming a gun at someone and pulling the trigger. If the penalties were much harsher, I feel bullying would diminish quite a bit..
I have lost a few friends, and one close relative to suicide, and the scars of it never go away, regardless of what compelled someone to suicide.
Sadly, instead of progressing as an entire race of people on a planet, we of the earth are going backwards, and self destruction is quite possible, probably inevitable..
EasyPleaseMe
After reading this thread I have to say that that ATS is full of some very, very strange people...edit on 18/10/2013 by EasyPleaseMe because: (no reason given)
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EasyPleaseMe
After reading this thread I have to say that that ATS is full of some very, very strange people...edit on 18/10/2013 by EasyPleaseMe because: (no reason given)
Can you be more specific? I want to know if I'm strange.
_BoneZ_
They're not being charged with bullying, they're being charged with aggravated stalking, which is a 3rd-degree felony. They stalked this girl online, and offline to bully her.
Turning bullying into a felony, maybe after a 3-strikes rule. But bullying needs to be dealt with swiftly and harshly. Bullies need to be sent a message that it is not acceptable, and will not be tolerated.
Those who have not ever been bullied in their life, can't comprehend how it could drive someone to commit suicide. No, they didn't force this poor girl to commit suicide, but they were a direct (or indirect) result of it.
Had they not bullied her, she would still be alive this very moment.
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The stepmother of a 14-year-old accused of bullying a Florida girl prior to her suicide was arrested and charged with child abuse after a video depicting the woman beating a boy was posted on Facebook, a sheriff said Friday.
During a news conference, Polk County Sheriff Grady Judd said the arrest of 30-year-old Vivian Vosburg on two counts of child abuse with bodily harm and four counts of child neglect is a shocking chapter in a months-long tragic story in Central Florida.
Judd said Vosburg is the stepmother of one of two girls charged with felony aggravated stalking earlier in the week. Officials say the girls, 14 and 12, bullied and harassed 12-year-old Rebecca Sedwick before she climbed a tower at an abandoned concrete plant and hurled herself to her death Sept. 9.
winofiend
reply to post by SadistNocturne
God .. Pathetic.
You want to bully people, don't you.. Afraid of the law now, aren't you.
Awww there there little guy, you can still have kids of your own to raise like victims. Tell them to wipe away the tears when they cop it from 15 thugs, maybe whip them a thick skin.
It will be alright, jack.
Pathetic...
amazing
My boys are all trained in Karate and know that violence in response to bullying is okay with me and they will get in no trouble. They know I have their backs and that they can talk to me about anything. I'm on the fence on this post...I don't have enough information. I know that bullying kills and scars the victims for life. It's not okay. Ever. Parents that 'let' their children bully and do nothing about it should be charged with something. That's one of the biggest problems in todays society...they let their children to anything...there is no supervision, training, discipline, shows of affection. Nothing from a large percentage of parents. It disgusts me.
snypwsd
reply to post by SadistNocturne
Honestly Schools do nothing to help victims of bullying. My nephew for the past 2 years has been getting bullied at school.
My nephew told his teachers, the supervisors, the principals and they all do nothing. Every time my brother and his wife go to the school to talk to the principal they were told the same thing. "Put your son in martial arts so he can defend him self"
.............
This is coming from the principal.... He basically is promoting violence instead of trying to resolve it.
We don't live in the states either, we live in British Columbia Canada. our laws were the first to change after that one girl killed herself out here, and yet the schools still do nothing to help our children. Christy Clarke says her government is all about families, pfft
I believe that Bullies should be punished. Yes they should get that scare treatment of spending a night or two in jail.
If it was my daughter who was a bully, I would take her to the police station so that she could see what the consequences of her actions are.
Im sorry but I do not agree with you. I have seen so many examples of people getting pushed to their limit because they do not get the help they need even if they ask for it.
Children now a days dont know what punishment is, when I was in school, if you were caught bullying you got detention, if it happened again you got suspended and if it happend a third time then you got expelled.
Now a days kids get let off the hook too easily.
XxNightAngelusxX
Its cute that you claim to be a sadist OP (which might lead me to believe you ARE one of these kinds of bullies, if I knew you better, but I won't make assumptions), but in reality, people--kids or NOT--who condemn their peers and fellow human beings so coldly and ruthlessly deserve whatever God, AND our jaded justice system gives them.
Like SOOO many others here, you begin by making assumptions. And in your case, you are not only making an assumption based on ignorance about what identifying oneself as a Sadist in today's day and world means, but also in what *I* personally am identifying myself as a Sadist for.
Second, I identify myself as a Sadist. Yes. I also am one of the kindest persons you'd ever meet. I can provide references upon request (seriously, take me up on it). Also, to have it suggested that by being a Sadist I would wantonly take pleasure in someones undeserved or unwanted pleasure is not only insulting, but it shows your overall lack of understanding, to put it mildly. To put it not so mildly, you have not a single clue as to what you are talking about when it comes to me, or to what the term Sadist really means in today's world. Do you?
And btw, to suggest that "If I knew you better I wouldn't make these assumptions", well, it's a pretty piss poor effort at thinly veiling your true intent, now isn't it.
Once we clear this up, and establish a level of common respect for one another, then a dialogue can start as to the matter at hand on this thread.
Oh, and btw, I'll take that apology from you now.
XxNightAngelusxX
reply to post by SadistNocturne
Like SOOO many others here, you begin by making assumptions. And in your case, you are not only making an assumption based on ignorance about what identifying oneself as a Sadist in today's day and world means, but also in what *I* personally am identifying myself as a Sadist for.
Alright. So, by referencing your username and your personal claims to being a sadist, I am making assumptions based on ignorance. Right. I don't care what society thinks it *means* to be a sadist. I know what a sadist is, and that's as far as I thought it through. Your personal tweaks to the meaning of the word "sadist" don't apply to everyone else.
When you say sadist, everyone isn't going to take it the way you want them too.
Second, I identify myself as a Sadist. Yes. I also am one of the kindest persons you'd ever meet. I can provide references upon request (seriously, take me up on it). Also, to have it suggested that by being a Sadist I would wantonly take pleasure in someones undeserved or unwanted pleasure is not only insulting, but it shows your overall lack of understanding, to put it mildly. To put it not so mildly, you have not a single clue as to what you are talking about when it comes to me, or to what the term Sadist really means in today's world. Do you?
Maybe I don't know you personally, which is why I posted a disclaimer stating I would not make any assumptions or state my guesses as facts, but I know what a sadist is. And a masochist.
Lack of understanding.... hilarious.
So, I am ignorant for making observations about you... but when YOU make (false) observations about me, they ought to be factual... is that right? The arguing methods on ATS never get old...
And btw, to suggest that "If I knew you better I wouldn't make these assumptions", well, it's a pretty piss poor effort at thinly veiling your true intent, now isn't it.
Pot, meet kettle...
Understand what you're saying in this thread.
You're essentially siding with the bullies, some of the most disgusting kinds of people alive. And FWI, that's not an assumption. That's a statement backed by lots of personal experience.
Those people put others through an unfathomable hell, and they deserve punishment.
I understand that bending the law isn't a favorable effort, especially for conspirators, but in this case, one of the VERY few times I will EVER say this; Bend the law all you want.
Mummy and daddy didn't discipline them, so somebody ought to.
Strictness and force are the only things that human predators like that will respond to.
Once we clear this up, and establish a level of common respect for one another, then a dialogue can start as to the matter at hand on this thread.
Mhm.
Its funny you ramble about me making assumptions...
As a child, I went through quite a few disturbing phases brought on by my inner sadist. I'll spare you the stories, they aren't entirely T&C friendly...
As for being a masochist? I wish I could show you the scars on me.
While I'm not part of the little pain-loving subculture you spoke about, I now full well what its like to get a *high* from pain. Inflicted or delivered.
What was that about making assumptions...?
Oh, and btw, I'll take that apology from you now.
Oh, that's adorable.
See, one of my favorite arguing methods of ATS.
I call it the "Throne Complex."
Putting ones self on an imaginary pedestal, in order to front as though you are somehow ahead of, or on a higher status than, whoever you're arguing with. Putting on a show as though you are inherently "right" in the argument.
I have news for you. Level 1 psychology doesn't work on me.
Apologize for my beliefs? Nope.
Nice try, though.
XxNightAngelusxX
reply to post by SadistNocturne
Enjoy life in Narrow-ville, bub
Way to cop out of a debate
Peace.
Kinda says alot, doesn't it ? One way, or the other, it say's alot.
And btw, let me help you out with this. To me, my "copping out of a debate" means two things. First, it means you simply don't offer much to me with potential for a debate.
Second, it means, conversation over. Feel free to go ahead and make what ever little quip you feel necessary to feel good about this.