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Originally posted by Hefficide
reply to post by kaylaluv
What fun would that be???
Originally posted by TheGreazel
Greetings ATS
Yesterday i went with friends to a bar to drink some beer and have some quality time with some music and other friends.
Now i am usually the Silent strong type when going to these establishments.
Because i have less self esteem then other people i usually stand in the background calmly drinking my beverage and chat with friends.
and to be Honest i dont want to be in everyone's spotlight.
But at some point people start to get drunk and act like pigs , one guy was touching me a few times , and became very annoying , mostly when i am standing somewhere people try to claim the personal space by gently trample the location with a group of friends.
Usually this does not really bother me but i got so cornered that i almost fell over because i had no room to stand anymore.
My personality doesnt allow my self to get mixed up in these things , and i am probably more calm then "normal" people when dealing with these situations , because when i am put in very agressive situations my ADHD will cause me to snap because of the overload of stress and i turn into a raging bull.
And because i am almost 2 meters tall and doing heavy lifting as a job and going to the gym atleast 3 times a week i am not the weakest.
Because i am very well aware of these facts i run a tight ship when it comes to these emotions and havent showed much acts of agression over the last decade.
But at some point even i will be sick of being trampled and will start making a stand , but i really dont want to hurt anyone no matter how discusting they are , everything inside me screams wrong when thinking about solving it in a physical matter aka fistfight.
But how to solve it then ?? because reasoning with harrasing drunks in my book is out of the equation.
TheGreazel.
Originally posted by butcherguy
Good rant.
I even have my personal space invaded at the grocery store, standing in line at the checkout. People will get so close behind me that they are actually touching me. So I pull my elbow away from my body and turn around quicklyso that they get the elbow somewhere on their person. Then they figure out that they were too close.
Originally posted by kaylaluv
Don't hang out with drunks.
Originally posted by Advantage
Fascinating!
I dont drink, but I go out with friends or with the husband at times. People wont paw you if youre self confident, but drunks dont usually pick up on that. Don't want pawing... or cant tell em to GTFO.. dont go to a bar. My husband is a big aggressive guy. We were walking down an aisle in a bar here and a guy backed up, bumped into my husband and, of course a drunk being a drunk, he got mad and grabbed my husbands shirt. I didnt feel like dealing with a fight.. which my husband would have murdered the guy... I just touched the guys hand, smiled and said, " Sorry, he is married, he doesnt like guys"... talk about a mind boggled drunk. Besides, it was funny as hell.
The grocery store check out thing is odd to me also. Ive had that happen numerous times.. and Ill just ask them to move ( which they do) or say " Hey.. youre paying for MY groceries.. YAY!" They move. Most people dont even realize theyre idiots until you point it out anyway. There are times I am more aggressive, but for a rude fool in a grocery store? Its not worth the effort or aggravation, IMO.
Originally posted by cody599
Originally posted by Advantage
Fascinating!
I dont drink, but I go out with friends or with the husband at times. People wont paw you if youre self confident, but drunks dont usually pick up on that. Don't want pawing... or cant tell em to GTFO.. dont go to a bar. My husband is a big aggressive guy. We were walking down an aisle in a bar here and a guy backed up, bumped into my husband and, of course a drunk being a drunk, he got mad and grabbed my husbands shirt. I didnt feel like dealing with a fight.. which my husband would have murdered the guy... I just touched the guys hand, smiled and said, " Sorry, he is married, he doesnt like guys"... talk about a mind boggled drunk. Besides, it was funny as hell.
The grocery store check out thing is odd to me also. Ive had that happen numerous times.. and Ill just ask them to move ( which they do) or say " Hey.. youre paying for MY groceries.. YAY!" They move. Most people dont even realize theyre idiots until you point it out anyway. There are times I am more aggressive, but for a rude fool in a grocery store? Its not worth the effort or aggravation, IMO.
If that was directed at me
It was so worth it
Principles are worth defending
Not enough people stand up for their rights
Those that think they are better, or just think they can take advantage and walk over others, occasionally, get a lesson in decorum and honour.
Love, truth and honour.
Use it or lose it
Cody