Zenyatta Recommendatta
frey51, I posted some recommendations to
your thread for you to
consider and adopt as you see fit.
My impression is that you already have a substantial degree of awareness about our spiritual nature, but wish to understand it better, as do most of
us.
It is extremely tempting to use such things as Ouija boards, or in my case pentagrams, as expedients to make spiritual contacts, but they are really
just props, foci used to help you open your mind to what is always there.
Having done some rather rash things in the past myself, the main lesson I have learned is that patience is a definite virtue.
These things have apparently been happening to some degree or another all your life, so if it takes a few months to meditate about them and explore
them with the most powerful tool you have (your mind), that's really not such a bad deal.
Doing It Right The First Time
Unless I am very much mistaken, we all have enough time in our lives to set some aside to just think about things. At least, I have never met anyone
who has regretted doing so.
I'm not a psychic, but I suspect that you will find much better answers within your own mind than from an unknown disembodied spirit.
If you encounter interference or opposition to your meditations, or see increased bad behavior on the part of certain spirits, please let me know, and
bear in mind that they act up because they are afraid.
Though you may see some resentment on the part of some spirits as your meditations progress, but usually by then you have already learned that you
need not fear any other spirit at all.
Setting The Right Mood
If I am at all right, we are all far more alike than different, none of us is more important than another, we are all truly immortal and we are all
necessary to Creation.
Knowing this tends to make spiritual encounters much more enjoyable and beneficial, as well as set a more suitable tone for interactions with spirits
-- not as slaves or masters, but brothers and sisters.
Since I started meditating, I have shed a great deal of fear and have found that the grounding meditation provides helps make things go much better
spiritually.
Thus the broken record routine about meditating.
More To The Point
So, should you try to contact a lost friend? It seems like a simple enough decision, doesn�t it? Who wouldn�t want to say one last goodbye?
I lost a good friend myself almost a year ago, and it was difficult for me. So far, I have chosen not to try to contact him. I know I have felt his
presence -- right after he died, in fact, and only occasionally after. But it was nothing more, just a feeling of closeness.
An important question to answer before deciding to contact a deceased loved one is: why? Is it for your benefit or theirs? What do you really want to
say, and what do you really want to hear?
In my case, if I had the chance, all I would really want to say is �thanks�. I think he already knows how I feel anyway, and that�s good enough for
me.
Whether or not that�s good enough for you is a decision only you can make.
Having said that, I can say that I have some extensive encounters with a spirit I have known before, and that I am fairly sure anyone else can do
likewise.
In my opinion, the best way to handle such things is to relax, meditate, ease your mind, and let them come to you -- if they choose to. Spirits have
their own interests and affairs to attend to, and are thus not always available when you want them, so don�t take it the wrong way if you seem to get
snubbed.