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Originally posted by Hawking
Also, multiple orgasms never hurts
Originally posted by Hawking
As a guy who's been after girls for 15 of my 25 years I must agree with every point you've made here.
Girls don't want you to write poems, follow them around and propose after a few weeks of dating.
That doesn't mean they want a total jackass either though. Girls want confidence, kindness, they want you to recognize their emotions but don't be too emotional. Don't ignore them, but don't make all your decisions based on them either. Be reasonable and strong
Also, multiple orgasms never hurts
Originally posted by AnIntellectualRedneck
I noticed the thread on the front page (link), and I just had to throw my 2-cents in from the female perspective. I have several friends that are nice guys. These are some of the mistakes I've seen:
1. Nice guys seem to think that "nice" means needy and clingy. No. Nice means you have some basic manners and think of me as a person you would like to see naked rather than a piece of meat with clothes on.
2. Nice guys seem to always move way too fast. You shouldn't be having deep, soulful conversations and talking about soul-mates on date 3. Even if the connection is there, waiting a little while to give it voice makes sense.
3. Nice guys actually take girls literally when they talk about wanting Prince Charming. Prince Charming is kind of a creeper if you think about it.
4. Nice guys tend to act like they believe those old stereotypes about girls wanting relationships and never just being out for fun. This is a mistake.
5. Nice guys will almost invariably make a B-line for the biggest ho and/or psycho in the room. If you find yourself irresistibly drawn to a girl, proceed with caution.
Originally posted by AnIntellectualRedneck
1. Nice guys seem to think that "nice" means needy and clingy. No. Nice means you have some basic manners and think of me as a person you would like to see naked rather than a piece of meat with clothes on.
2. Nice guys seem to always move way too fast. You shouldn't be having deep, soulful conversations and talking about soul-mates on date 3. Even if the connection is there, waiting a little while to give it voice makes sense.
3. Nice guys actually take girls literally when they talk about wanting Prince Charming. Prince Charming is kind of a creeper if you think about it.
4. Nice guys tend to act like they believe those old stereotypes about girls wanting relationships and never just being out for fun. This is a mistake.
5. Nice guys will almost invariably make a B-line for the biggest ho and/or psycho in the room. If you find yourself irresistibly drawn to a girl, proceed with caution.
Originally posted by Night Star
Girls don't want you to write poems??? Why not? I was always touched deeply when a boyfriend would write a poem.