posted on Nov, 22 2011 @ 01:09 PM
reply to post by DieSektor
I am afraid I have to tell you an ugly truth because I firmly believe it will be helpfull to you. There is unfortunately a type of girl that is
attracted to the badboy, they are usually younger, and often, very attractive, and winsome. This all to common disorder of the female mind is known
as hypergamy; let us examine your post one paragraph at a time for any traces of this condition:
para 1; Why would she not appreciate a guy who cares about what she likes, and how she feels (hypergamy ?)
para 2; Mother feels good when her daughter is with you (it is likely her mother knows exactly what sort of guy her daughter is attracted to possibly
because she was/is like that herself) because she knows her daughter is safer with you than the other guy. Parents approval of you means that you do
not represent a rebellion in her eyes therefore you are less attractive than a cad that is not approved of (hypergamy ?)
para 3; She is saying she wants to take a little break. This is a prelude to her dumping you because she is not attracted to a guy that treats her
decently (hypergamy?) you also say you catch her in lies [major red flag].
para 4; She needs to get over her ex. She is not over him she is still very much attracted to him, her family dont want her to be with him (one more
reason she wants him back) and neither does she, this is also most likely a lie (hypergamy?)
para 5; You are nothing but good to her, and her mother likes you, yet she is not responding in kind (hypergamy?).
A hypergamous girl/woman is attracted to men of higher status than she percieves in her self it could be looks, money, or the fact that other women
find him attractive. You basically have two choices become that badboy she finds so hot, or get out of there now while you still have your dignity.
The truth even if unpalatable remains the truth.