How do I stop all the problems?

reply to post by FeraVerto


You're not in love with her, and you both believe two different things.

This shouldn't be a difficult question. The only real factor here is your fear of being alone until you find another.

I went through an atheist phase too (I'm now more of an agnostic). I still don't believe in the collection of fables that make up the Bible, but I don't go out of my way to de-convert the faithful either. I feel folks are entitled to their own beliefs. In addition, if there is a God, and I've lived a good life, and been good to others, if that isn't good enough for him, then so be it...Heaven isn't fit to have ME, not the other way around. So, that great ultimatum gimmick isn't working on me...

She obviously feels that she still has to put down the beliefs of others to make herself feel better about her choice. That's fine too, but you've moved past that, and should seek out a) one you really will be in love with and b) one who has at least some similarity in beliefs....