posted on Feb, 25 2011 @ 06:17 PM
Sort of a rant.. but kind of a discussion.
Im some of you have man/boy problems.. Im not talking about that so make your own thread. WIsh to make
fun of the boy or situation? I truly hope you get whatever you put out there returned to you...
One of our family friends is a young guy, just turned 21. His parents are both drug addicts and generally terrible. His own mother tried to kill him
when he wouldnt give her money for heroin. However, this young man finished HS, became a paramedic and went into the army as a medic. He has had his
own home since he was 18... mortgage and all.. and has been a great kid. Not a perfect kid, a great kid. My husband and I are older and our daughter
is a knock out so he has been glued to us for 4 years now. The 2 never dated.. the boy thinks he isnt good enough.... so he chooses girls I personally
dont approve of. He found one who is a very pretty girl, but bad news. He proposed to her not too long ago and the ring wasnt big enough... so he ran
out and bought her another ring. I warned him.. what a HUGE red flag. Still he persisted. He recently got is deployment assignment.. to Afghanistan in
October.. so he has been working outrageous shifts to save up money to give to this stupid girl to live in his home while he is gone.
Last night he got off early and walked in on this girl and a friend.. on his couch. Naked of course. he booted everyone out and locked himself in the
bedroom. He has a room mate who went to work and came home for lunch today to find the house trashed and this boy on the kitchen floor.. we were
called after the ambulance was called. This girl has been horrible from day one.. and I hold her responsible for torturing this boy until he could
take no more. Of course he is responsible for choosing this action he did.. but she took this kids heart and ripped it out. He is alive.. but not
doing well. This stupid girl ... knowing me and how I am and how much I love this kid... called the house and informed us he wants to speak to no one.
My husband answered the phone. Wrong, she didnt want us knowing what she did.. once a liar and manipulator always a liar and manipulator. She didnt
even know what hospital her "fiance" was in! Grrrrr!
SO here is what I can not wrap my head around.. who the hell do some young women think they are and where do they learn that this is a normal way to
treat others? My mother would have whooped my butt off if Id have behaved in this way. Id have NEVER dreamed of doing something like this.. ever. How
can these girls live with themselves and act like they are justified in doing these things? How can she go on to facebook and dare use this tragedy to
garner sympathy for HERSELF? How does she even come up with the idea to manipulate this situation to put herself in the best light? To me this is