posted on Sep, 20 2010 @ 07:50 AM
When two people love each other more than words can describe, and feel like they spend everyday with their best friend and soul mate - of whom nobody
in the world can replace, and they have this mindset for a very very long time - then yes, marriage is a very good way to go about going to the "next
step"/"last step" - Its the final step, the pinnacle of 2 people loving each other is getting married.
Marriage is a wonderful thing, a wonderful day and in allot of cases it brings the family of the 2 people closer together. It unites people/family's.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with marriage its self - its just the small amount(Well, pretty large amount) of people getting marrid with
preconceptions of the marriage giving them a better relationship,better life style and what not, or soley because they have a child and they feel its
right - but when these preconceptions fade away and reality sets in, that nothing has change other than her/his last name and both have a ring - thats
when dissapointment comes - high expectations lead to very big disapointments, and even turn into hate.
I my self would never get married. im 23 and been with my girlfriend for 6 years, child on the way and everything is going brilliant. We argue but if
we didnt, well sh!t that would just be weird. I laugh and joke with my friends about how long Iv been with her, saying i could of killed 2 guys, got
manslaughter and been out in less amount of time than iv been with my girlfriend (a sentance)
Plus the fact that people change, people change every single day without them knowing. Love can come and go and its happend to me a few times, but
managed to pull through because i love her, love her more than i love peanut butter (and thats saying something) - When people change and a ring is
on thier fingers, well thats another story. Divorce, re-married blah blah blah. Monie Monie Monieeh! Plus the fact she/he gets HALF!