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Originally posted by Hazelnut
reply to post by Stillalive
yah, I'm a girl and I loved my long hair. I have considered having some real hair sewn in until mine grows out but it might be a tad on the expensive side.
Originally posted by Orion65
I know exactly how you feel. I've always had really long hair (halfway down my back) and a few years ago I went in to get a "slight" haircut and the lady chopped it up almost to my shoulders. I was furious. Some people just do not listen when you tell them what kind of haircut you want.
Sorry to hear that it's still upsetting you - have you tried the Hair/Skin/Nails supplements? Take those and extra vitamin D (around 2000 to 4000 IU a day), that worked for me. My hair is long again.
Originally posted by LadySkadi
Originally posted by Hazelnut
reply to post by Stillalive
yah, I'm a girl and I loved my long hair. I have considered having some real hair sewn in until mine grows out but it might be a tad on the expensive side.
I'm so sorry that happened to you! I can totally empathize and as silly as it sounds to us to say out loud, having something like that done to you without your permission is quite a shock (to say the least) but also is normal to be upset. Don't get me started on the psychological reasons why many women do something dramatic to hair due to "grief" of some sort and than regret it later... I think almost all of us have been there...
And if it makes you feel any better, I'm growing back (finally just got out of the "short" length) from a (salon induced) botched highlighting that ended with my hair turn to mush (like gum!) and mostly just fall out... Waist length to Nose length, just like that! Yes, I cried and Yes, it shattered my confidence for a bit, too.
I agree with the supplements, fish oil (or fish itself) etc. really helps the growth spurts!
[edit on 19-10-2009 by LadySkadi]
Can someone help me understand why, when I should have been madder than a hatter, I reacted completely outside my normal disposition? Instead of laying into her, I cried. I still can't stop crying. A year later and I'm still emotionally distraught.
Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
reply to post by Hazelnut
I knew - I know
there's no way this won't sound simplistic and obvious - but try and take care of yourself - you've been through a lot
a lot
getting back to hair - here's something - every time I've cut my hair - and I mean really cut it - it was after something traumatic - I've heard many other women say the same thing - death, illness, divorce - so - it's about more than just the hair
next - you look better than you think you do - it's just the way it works
finally - no matter how tempting - never shave your head
:-)