How often should a pair have sex?

Well i belive if you both want it (and ofcourse are old enough) then do it as much as you and your partner want. I mean its a really nice way to show u partner how much they mean to you, by giving them all your attention and making them feel so good at the same time.

Just my thoughts.

[edit on 25-4-2006 by picklewalsh]

Always leave time in your busy sex schedule for tiresome conspiracy discussions that do nothing but turn your lover off. Thats what i do atleast and its not going so well.

we're talking with eachother, right?

I get confused on this.


dr. love is right, if all you do is have sex it means you don't have much else in common and that means you don't ever talk about things, you just jump in the sack and....

what's the problem here?

Originally posted by mr conspiracy

then he told us how to avoid getting your girl pregnant using the natural body cycle. so she wont ever need the pill and you wont ever need to use the condom.

i dont know whether to believe him. he is an expert though.

Yes, the "rhythm method". You know what you call couples practicing the rhythm method for contraception, don't you?

Parents.

Or at least that's what I keep telling my boyfriend...yeah so it's now like...OMFG it's over four weeks!!! No NOOKIE!!!

He's busy, gets home from work and is tired and miserable...we don't live together thank god, I have a kid who BTW hates his guts (and everything else about him HA HA)...so fitting in time for sex is apparently not so easy all the time.

And definitely - without a doubt - KIDS are really good mood spoilers. I adore my kiddo but man there are times where if there was a passing Gypsy caravan I swear I'd sell her.

Anyway, after four weeks of no sex, I have noticed that I seem a lot smarter. Isn't that the Costanza Syndrome?? (Seinfeld)

Anyway, in a perfect world I'd have nooky daily even twice daily if we could tack on a couple extra hours.

*sigh*

Now I'm really depressed.

LOL - I just had to post my comment that I have to laugh every time I see the title to this thread.

How often should a pair have sex?

I would say, they should wait at least 30 minutes between episodes. Otherwise the male starts to run a risk of testicular torsion, or tearing/blistering at the base of the glans. Likewise, with lubricant gels, the female begins to develop irritations from the surfactants involved.

but 30 minutes should take care of it. And drink lots of water.



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Well if you have sex instead of doing a work out to stay in shape, I might recommend at least once a day. However if you think you might be getting out of shape, you might need to work harder and do it more often. Perhaps even get the girl to do some workouts so she stays in top shape as well. Years later when the doctor says your in excellent shape and asks if you workout, just tell him or her oh yes, several times a day.

lol this was a horrible topic for ats and bts


ps. i had some turtles. that did it like 8 times a day for a month straight....they just couldnt seem to conceive. or pebble-head just couldnt knock on off

Originally posted by KayEm
As often as you both want, Baaaayyyybeeeee

Exactly what I was thinking

Lets see, before you start, learn all the positions. Then light the candles. Then turn on the porno movie. Then f* each other for 365 days NONSTOP with NO break, NO sleep, NO eating, NO going to the bathroom (duh, you ain't gonna be eating so no need for bathroom), NO shower, JUST F*** each other for 365 days!





Just kidding. But if IT WAS POSSIBLE, I'd do it


I think 5 times a day is enough. But for some people that's too much. Actually, f* that, you gotta have sex 10-20 times a day. Even more. Just make sure to learn all the positions to make it more fun, USE A CONDOM, and perhaps turn a A GOOD porno on the TV, cuz it is supposed to make your partner "energized"


About schedules, f* that. Do it whenever BOTH of you feel like it.

How often should a pair have sex?

Depends. I've seen some couples that i wished wouldn't chance reproducing. Birth control is important. Just think how much could have been prevented if we had been sending birth control to regions of the world where children starve to death.

If we had been sending them birth control decades ago, i wouldn't be inconvenienced by having to hit the mute button on my remote control every time those starving, shoeless, rancid water drinking, flies in their eyes, orphaned sick kids from that Christian Children's Fund commercials come on to annoy me.


But, seriously,

The only true answer to your question is:

As often as she desires an orgasm, or neither of you will be happy.
And, if you can't keep up, U2U me and send me her digits. If you really loved her, you would put her needs above your wants. (J/K)

[edit on 20-8-2006 by Esoteric Teacher]

Biblicaly speaking, niether of you should tell the other one no. But by the same token, both of your should think of the other first.

(Of course, your supose to be married first :-)

But the more the marrier! As long as you both realize that you may be basing a love feeling on passion - which can cause problems if you guys want to marry later.

Originally posted by TheDarkFlame

A pair of what?

Pencil me in??

Whenever you feel you want it babe

How often should a pair have sex?

Once in 14 days.

I do that myself.

By then, she is really gagging for it, and I am dying to give it to her.

We do it everywhere - kitchen, stairs, bathroom, and of course, the bed.

Its a special day everytime.

My biology teacher used to say if you have sex more than that,
you will lose your manliness, and then will not be able to get it up for your woman.

And that is so true.

He was so right, a lot of men nowadays can't keep it up for an hour.

Women love REAL men. Not men who need pills.


So, I would say the best policy is: Wait for it.





[edit on 20-10-2006 by mr conspiracy]

Only once.

Why would anyone want to reuse the same pear??

But try switching it up. Plumbs, Aprecots, Nectarines, (she'll love the prickly-pear)

I recomend all fruit. It lends a healthy aspect to sex.

ROFL @ this thread!

Well, you can't realistically expect to have sex every single day.... I remember when I lived with my first gf, we would often go once or twice a day, though not all the time of course.... ahhh, fond memories

I think you should have sex twice a week and make love three times a week. Maybe a quickie once a week.

Whenever they want it.