How often should a pair have sex?

Amen.

And an extra comment - "As often as your fancy takes you" - to avoid a one liner warning.

Originally posted by chrisnolefan

but forget the johnny cap, it takes some fun out of it, unless your chick has the funk or somethin

I don't think it takes the fun out of it. (at least, not ALL the fun). Plus, when you know that the governement invested so much in creating sexually transmisible virus to reduce the earth population...

Wear your Johny and don't worry !

I don't think it really matters. Me and my girlfriend kind of belong to the same general circle of friends but she lives a bit further away so we're mostly glad of our 'alone' time and we don't go by and sort of fixed routine. We tend to just go at it as we feel like it I guess. Remember the rubber though , and don't worry about it too much, just let nature take it's course, so to speak

Originally posted by worldwatcher
IMO if you are in a good one-partner relationship, at least once everyday, except for the 5-7 days that the female in the partnership is on the rag.

but it all depends on the couple, and what makes you feel satisfied and happy, there is no right and wrong as to when and how much.

Don't listen to this advice.. you should go for having sex EVERY day at the very least.. don' t worry about the rag thing , plenty of guys wear the red badge of courage with pride

Originally posted by groovyguru
don' t worry about the rag thing , plenty of guys wear the red badge of courage with pride

LMAO....

worldwatcher do u look anything like the girl in ur av

as much as humanly possible...i only say this because....once you get settled down and the kids come out.....bye bye goes the nookie-nookie time. but if that is too much for ya then go for once a day twice on sunday....

Originally posted by LqdCID
When blisters start to form, it's about time to stop. It's worked well for me in the past, and will in the future...

A shrink told me once if you routinely have to take breaks til the pain stops or things heal, there's a problem. Somebody has an addiction or issues are being avoided.

but forget the johnny cap, it takes some fun out of it, unless your chick has the funk or somethin

Have to agree here.... Your gal getting a once in a while depo shot is a LOT easier on BOTH of you.... Best of both worlds, all the fun, less risk than even the johnny cap (statistically, remember NOTHING is 100%, but I'll take 99.9% odds anyday)....

As for how often....anything less than once a week, and there's likely a problem...... More often, of course, is much, much better....

Originally posted by RANT

Originally posted by LqdCID
When blisters start to form, it's about time to stop. It's worked well for me in the past, and will in the future...

A shrink told me once if you routinely have to take breaks til the pain stops or things heal, there's a problem. Somebody has an addiction or issues are being avoided.

So how did the therapy work for you? Do you still have this "problem?"

4 Times Daily On Weekdays, 9 Times Daily On Weekends.

Originally posted by TheDarkFlame
Well not mutch time ago my girlfriend and I were speculating
on how often it ok to have sex if you love eachother. We didnt come to any conclusion so I dicided to put this here and maybe get some opinions.
I personaly think as long as both sides are "in the mood" they should have sex as often as they want/can.

Any other thoughts?

AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ~ by all means. You shouldn't have to discuss it ~ it should just come naturally and if you love her that much you should be rippin' her clothes off everytime you see her. *Hmmm ... that gives me an idea*

Let me give you some of my warped wisdom. If you're having sex all the time it probably means that you have nothing else in common and the relationship is doomed. I look at sex like the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. If you communicate well and have interests and hobbies that compliment one another, the relationship will be more balanced, and in my opinion the sex, even having it less frequently, will be that much better.

Peace

Wow this is an old thread that has been brought back to life.


I think the amount of sex a couple should have varies from couple to couple. Some may need alot, others may not. As long as both sides of the relationship are happy with it... then just keep on truckin!

Yeah, I noticed the original thread date after I posted. The author could be dead by now and really not concerned with sex anymore.

Peace

I think people differ on sexual appetite the same as they do on their natural need for sleep or their food appetites. Some of us just have a more active libidos...

I would say as often as the mood strikes. I mean the more the merrier in my opinion. A strong sex drive is healthy anyhow, and its good exercize

what together....or with different people?

Originally posted by TheDarkFlame

How often should a pair have sex?

Any other thoughts?

You mean you stop?

dont hit the breaks man. burn some rubber.

ok. no. seriously.

once in 14 days.

thats what my biology teacher said. me and two of my friends asked him the same question after the class. at first he wouldn't say nothing, but we begged him to tell us. we told him it was real important for us to know coz we aint no rabbits. so he told us. he said 14 days would be best for both man and woman, thats twice a month. do that and you'll never need viagra. he himself is 75 and is old fashion kinda guy. he is still at it, the lucky bastard. he never uses a condom and says each love making session should last 20 minutes, tops.

then he told us how to avoid getting your girl pregnant using the natural body cycle. so she wont ever need the pill and you wont ever need to use the condom.

i dont know whether to believe him. he is an expert though.

staying away from me girl for 13 days is difficult. you know?




[edit on 24-4-2006 by mr conspiracy]

Have it as much as you want.. But like any good song, the more you play it the more boring it gets. So basically its better to mix it up with different people that way each song (Girl) always seems relatively new