reply to post by fubar1985
and how do you deal with stable marriages, stable financial situations at the time of child birth which turn out to become divorce and as a result
welfare dependens at the age of 8 or 10 of the child?
even if you are single parent you can care for your child
even if you got less or few money - you can care for your child and love him or her
taking a written test won.t prepare you for the reality to live with a child
and even child #1 prepares you for child #2
you just have to accept that your offsprings are individuals and react differently just like yourself!
having children and sex is not only a human right, it is a biological necessity.
and to restrain it for certain people and allow a certain circle of humans to reproduce might lead to genetic problems in the future.
and who will be the one who will decide?
even those whom we might choose to be worthy to reproduce might be regarded as unworthy in the eyes of our neighbors.
it will lead to a multiple class society and to civil war, to crime and hiding.
having kids is a challenge.
it is essential to start SE as soon as the kids start to ask.
even 3 or 4 yo are capable to ask where babies come from and than provide answers suitable for their age.
we need to make our kids strong by giving them the information they want and need.
parents should be able and not to shy to answer questions. and parents should be prepared that their kids might start sexual relationships at a time
we the parents don.t expect it.
the sexual desire can.t usually be controlled by mere will power.
but the more knowledge somebody has the more responsibility can be taken for a certain subject.