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Just to add; the thought of the possible smack in the head , kept me outta more trouble, and Please and Thank You followed suit
Originally posted by jd140
I got my ass whipped when I was a kid and I deserved everyone of them. I was an jack --- as a kid and because my parents whipped me I grew up into a respectful, law abidding man.
When I have children I will not treat them as my equal, because they aren't. I will treat them the way I was raised. I will be loving, playful, fair and just. I will spoil them when I can and whip them when I have to.
Originally posted by branty
Just to add; the thought of the possible smack in the head , kept me outta more trouble, and Please and Thank You followed suit
Originally posted by jd140
I got my ass whipped when I was a kid and I deserved everyone of them. I was an jack --- as a kid and because my parents whipped me I grew up into a respectful, law abidding man.
When I have children I will not treat them as my equal, because they aren't. I will treat them the way I was raised. I will be loving, playful, fair and just. I will spoil them when I can and whip them when I have to.
Originally posted by branty
reply to post by Bombeni
your post made me think of a news story i heard awhile back,It was from China. How the 1 child system was blowing up in their faces. The 1 child was being spoiled rotten by parents ,grandparents : the golden child symdrom . The little Brats dont listen and totally respect everyone.
I agree , thats child abuse, not what I meant while posting.
What is negative reinforcement? It's a slap on the face when they say something that you don't like. It's calling them dumb when their effort doesn't meet expectations etc.
Originally posted by paranoidoom
Hey,This is just ridiculous.
1.I'm a kid,and your saying I'm disrespectful.And I know I'm not.
2.If a kids disbehaving and doesn't listen to authority,Its the parents fault.
I'm not just saying that.I hear crap from other peoples parents saying their children are angels,when they're actually spoiled brats.And The parents are just afraid.With every new generation,The older try to help.Thats okay,but we gotta learn to take care of ourselves.
And if you thinks it the kids your wrong.
Originally posted by paranoidoom
Hey,This is just ridiculous.
1.I'm a kid,and your saying I'm disrespectful.And I know I'm not.
2.If a kids disbehaving and doesn't listen to authority,Its the parents fault.
I'm not just saying that.I hear crap from other peoples parents saying their children are angels,when they're actually spoiled brats.And The parents are just afraid.With every new generation,The older try to help.Thats okay,but we gotta learn to take care of ourselves.
And if you thinks it the kids your wrong.