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my dad said that ignorance is when someone is ignorant to the knowledge but what’s to know about it but refuse's to learn but he don't give me that chance to teach, since am 26 his 61
Originally posted by pieman
reply to post by deathpoet69
they talk about the past because the future holds very little for them and the present is full of people telling them that everything they've ever known is outdated, obsolete and pointless.
perhaps you should listen to what they are trying to tell you when they tell you a story, it is usually a parable regardless of weather or not that's the intention.
Originally posted by deathpoet69
reply to post by whaaa
Hi whaa i aint seen you for a while, hope yah doing ok.
interesting, you don't even come across near 60 either,
Originally posted by pieman
reply to post by deathpoet69
i can't really tell ya what he meant by it, i don't know your family circumstance, maybe he didn't want to talk about it just then, maybe he's just in a bad mood, maybe it's hard for him to recall because good memories are painful or maybe he's forgotten.
can you think of a reason he doesn't want to discuss it?
Originally posted by Stormdancer777
reply to post by deathpoet69
Hi poet I am 59, is that close enough?
To me it seems he is stuck in his ways and deals with it the only way he knows how.
My husband will be 60, he is quiet and set in his ways, but when he does speak I listen, because still waters run deep,
Maybe if you could find a way to let him know you are interested in what he has to say, get him to open up, earn his trust, don't try to influence him, let him be the teacher, find common ground then share experiences.
Sounds like he is hurting and has a protective shell around him.
He doesn't trust.
Originally posted by pieman
reply to post by deathpoet69
i can't imagine being a single father in the 80's was easy. i guess it's a sore spot and, to be fair, you're probably going to do more harm than good by poking at it. you might be too close for comfort.
also, bear in mind that he'll only find the friends, or women, he wants by doing it his way. it's no good to him finding friends that love mountain biking if he wants to go to the pub. let him suss things if he needs to.
Originally posted by pieman
the attitudes were different, it would have been harder for a man to understand his partner leaving him and his child and there wouldn't have been the support networks that are available today.
Originally posted by ghaleon12
I wouldn't be surprised if lower testosterone was the cause. Low testosterone brings about moodiness, depression, ect. Estrogen also rises I think as men get older. It is interesting, because the differences between men and women lessen as they get older.
Originally posted by simonecharisse
Based on my own personal experiences, I --dislike-- dealing with anyone under 35. There is something about you all that I just don't get. It has seemed to me, anyway, that none of you have a sense of humor, don't --get-- humor, are not able to generate humor. I luuuuuv funny stuff. I remembered when I lived in Chicago next to a major university. There was this newspaper box outside, full of free issues of 'The Onion'. As soon as I immediately look at it, I crack up laughing and laughing. --Only-- me though, NO one else. I --easily-- laugh at insane stuff. Easily. When I was under 35, I had --zero-- humor, but my excuse is, that I was having truly horrible life problems, which I don't have now. I suppose you all will tell me that 'The Onion' staff are all young. My excuse for that is, that they must be extraterrestrials, of some sort.