posted on Jan, 30 2009 @ 12:30 AM
I have to devote an entire post on how screwed up our thinking is involving this COMPLETELY normal, natural, physiologic event! It is yet another area
where we American's are way behind the times!!!!
Here is the thing, YES it is possible, common no, possible yes! OK, childbirth hurts, duh right everyone knows that but it is a mind over matter
Pain is there for a reason, in child birth that pain tells you something is happening for which you need to perpare, it is not there because there is
something "broken" or "abnormal"! Therefore **all** you need to do is to train your mind to learn to deal and in a way see this pain as good, like
someone running a marthon would feel! Yeah I did not say it is easy or that all women can get to the point where they are able to accept the pain and
move beyond it, into a place where you could allow your body to be relaxed enough despite the pain to experiance orgasm. If you believe in meditaton
or many of the eastern methods of thinking you can easily understand this concept.
As far as gross/disgusting/unnatural--- Come on now we are all adults here, how did the kid get there in the first place people? We are sexual beings,
relax and enjoy yourself, accept that we all are and that sex is a good thing and I hope for most enjoyable, cause it is supposed to be.
So we take a normal, healthy event, childbirth and turn it into a spectale with group of strangers staring at the mom, which is VERY un-natural! If
you are not ready nor do you want to experiance this, that is why epidurals are invented but do not dought it can be done! Western women today should
have that choice! The problem is there are groups in this country trying to make home child birth a felony! A woman giving birth at home with an
experianced birth attendant is a normal, healthy, natural event and in low risk normal pregnancy!