posted on Dec, 23 2008 @ 01:02 PM
reply to post by lombozo
There's no reason for you to feel guilt. There are other people who can work the soup kitchen but your son only has one father to make him feel
special and loved by spending Christmas Eve with him.
I like Ben's idea. Is it possible to have the best of both worlds and invite your son along to partake in your charity work? I guess it would depend
on your son's age, what you have planned for tomorrow night (big family event or just the two of you), and if the soup kitchen is a safe
environment.
If that idea is not workable, then it is 100% understandable to choose your son over charity work. I respect my mother immensely for her heavy
involvement in charity organizations but I'm not going to lie and say it didn't hurt when I was sick as a child, in the hospital, needed help with
my homework, needed someone to talk to, or left for college and my mother was nowhere to be found because she was so busy with one of her causes. It
would have been nice if just once she had told them her kids needed her therefore she couldn't attend or participate.
So basing my opinion on experience, I say you are doing the right thing. As noble of a cause it is to volunteer in a soup kitchen, your son needs you
as well so I support your decision.