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Although investigators initially said they thought the boy might have suffered severe physical or sexual trauma, they have found no evidence of abuse, said Roy Melnick, the police chief in St. Johns, Ariz., where the shootings occurred.
An investigation found no evidence that the boy had had disciplinary problems at school or shown signs that he was troubled, Chief Melnick said. “That’s what makes this case somewhat puzzling,” he said, adding that the court had ordered a psychological evaluation for the boy. “Our goal is to get him some help.”
Originally posted by Zaphod58
And there you go categorizing me without even knowing anything about what kind of parent I am. You have NO CLUE, but since I believe in spanking someone I automatically resort to violence.
Originally posted by Daedalus
And that's how it ought to be done. communication is key.....if you're gonna hit a kid, you need to have that as a last resort, and then you need to make sure you've throughly communicated to them why that was necessary. Make sure they understand why what they did was so bad that ir required that type of response...this is the only way they can learn from it.
Originally posted by snowen20
Also people please stop trying to use this thread as an anti gun advocacy site.
If I hear “that really shows you the power of guns “ again I will literally die from shock
Originally posted by projectvxn
First blaming guns never solved a crime, neither did characterizing North Americans in the light you shine. A murder is a murder regardless of the weapon you use. But that doesn't matter because it's easier to blame American culture, isn't it?
then he excercised his 2nd amendment right and he took up arms against his attackers, whom he slew in self-defense. God bless him. If this was England, or another disarmed country - he never would have had a chance.
Originally posted by v3_exceed
My post wasn't meant to justify this particular case, but to point out that there are signs which lean a certain way.
Keeping a tally at all, is a very good sign that this kid felt the smacking may not have been justified, or was in excess.
(it was mentioned often that 1000 smacks over 8 years wasn't excessive, so I pointed out that he would not have been able to count out of the womb. I didn't say his count was accurate or what constituted a smack.)
The killing of the guest, makes me think there was more to the guest than has been mentioned, and the police interrogation should not have been performed in the fashion it was. None of which provides enough information to make a judgment, but it is food for thought.
There is no high moral ground here. If you have to smack your 8 year old, you have already lost. I did not teach my kids that no one has the right to smack them by smacking them. There are alternatives.
Originally posted by Zaphod58
And we all know that kids would NEVER exagerate or blatantly lie about something like this. I've seen kids sit there and tell people with tears in their eyes about how their parents grabbed them by the arm and pulled them around and left bruises, when in actuality they fell and bruised their arm, and were pissed at their parents and wanted to get them in trouble. How many times have kids come home and lied about something a teacher did or someone at school did because they knew it would cause trouble?
Originally posted by freecell
I would like you all to know, Vince was a friend of mine. He had sole physical custody of his son from the divorce. I was also a police officer in the town of St. Johns. As far as I know, there was never even a mention of any type of abuse during, before or after the divorce.
Originally posted by Canadianduder
reply to post by Merriman Weir
Next time you quote me, please source that quote to the author -
I was responding to an anti-gun advocate who was reported to the moderators for his off-topic comment - But it would not be like you to reference context or post honestly.... your terminological and chronological inexactitude is not helping with the credibility of your posts - which thus far, are grossly lacking in the prerequisites that would have made them effective rebuttals.
Originally posted by Merriman Weir
Obviously, things like gun safety and responsibility were big issues for a lot of posters. However, it looks like child discipline was the real crux of the matter.
You have already made your anti-gun stance quite clear. There is no need to attack those who have opposing views and who - unlike yourself - do not incessantly advocate those views as they are off-topic....
[edit on 1-12-2008 by Canadianduder]
Originally posted by cashlink
A lot of you do not understand why some children kill their parents; well this is one example why kids do. My parents were evil they were monsters!
Originally posted by Canadianduder
reply to post by Merriman Weir
Wow....
He bears his heart to us and you shamelessly attack him for it.
He provided with a true example by telling us about how horribly he was abused -and you further abuse him for it.
Despicable.
A lot of you do not understand why some children kill their parents
Originally posted by RogerT
By the way, your avatar is a 'fighter' jet and your byline is thread-'killer', so yes, my best guess is that violence is in there somewhere.
Originally posted by Zaphod58
I haven't ONCE resorted to violence. I've gone through hell and come back myself and haven't ONCE resorted to violence even though I could easily have.
Originally posted by stumason
Oh come on! 1000 "smacks"? What constitutes a smack? A clip round the ear or round the arse, or beating him with a belt or table leg? If it's the former, than that is hardly worth killing your father (let alone the lodger) over is it? Regardless of his reasoning, the little turd should be punished for killing the lodger at least.
Stop making excuses until the facts come out. It quite clearly is pre-meditated murder.
Canadianduder, why did you feel the need to say "If this was England, or another disarmed country - he never would have had a chance". One could say that if this was England, then the father and his friend would still be alive and the child could call Social Services.
Is it not frightening that in a country awash with weapons that the child felt he had the right to kill someone because he was disciplined, rather than call the Authorities like a civilised person?