posted on Dec, 20 2008 @ 06:32 PM
I find it so strange that you two still enjoy each others company and have sex. It sounds better than being married!
Most married people I know seem to be uninterested in their spouses, they don't really seem to enjoy each others company, and actually seem
indifferent or border line angry at each other.
The fact that she divorced you is very telling. There's something else happening here that either you don't know about, or haven't yet shared with
If I were you I would try to go on some dates just for fun and also keep seeing your ex. But keep in mind she'll probably start going on dates
Having just written that, I'm thinking if you still love her as much as you have described maybe the best thing to do is stop seeing her for awhile
and go on some dates. Then see what happens.
When a woman rejects a man who loves her it sends your self esteem plummeting.
Why is it harder for men? Men are the one's who are supposed to do the pursuing, the hunting for women. Women can just show up somewhere looking cute
and wait for a guy to approach her. A guy has to look great, have money and a great car. He has to show a lot of confidence.
We all know that guys being guys will have sex with almost anything. So your ex will come across a lot of guys who will actively pursue her. You will
have to get yourself in great shape, look great, have money to spend and have a good car, etc.
Your ex just has to show up somewhere looking cute. This is why it's harder for most guys when they get divorced.
And to be honest, when a women initiates a break-up/divorce it usually means she is seeing someone else, or really, really wants to see someone
You seem like a really nice/sensitive person. You should go very cautiously, be prepared for more heartbreak when you discover who she's seeing.
Keep in mind, there are tons of people out there looking for someone. Work on improving yourself, get into shape, work out, play guitar build your
confidence and start dating. You'll probably have a great time.