posted on Oct, 17 2005 @ 08:33 AM
I'm so sorry for your huge loss. Hang in there, one moment at a time, you'll get by.
I lost my very best girlfriend of 25 years this year. It's unreal, I can still hardly believe she's gone.
How do you say goodbye? A little at a time. A bit each day. Be patient with yourself. Lose the expectations. Don't expect that you 'should' be
feeling any particular way. Just accept that you're going through something really big and don't pressure yourself to do or feel anything.
I know it seems disrespectful that life goes on, but that's actually one of the best healers. Watching the sun come up the next day, feeling that
your body needs nourishment... signs that life goes on.
Know that your friend is at peace and wants to support you in moving on. Know that he would want you to go on and not be dragged down by his need to
My thoughts are with you. I'm a U2U away...