originally posted by: TonyS
a reply to: FlyInTheOintment
Wow, the UK, sorry I didn;t catch on to that. Yea, the health care issue would be best addressed in the UK I suppose although we do have community
health clinics that are near free here in the US. However the standard of care has become rather sketchy.
Because of the myriad people problems here in the US, I really cant see it working very well here because truly no one can agree on much of anything
here except that everyone hates everyone else for one reason or another. Trying to adopt some common community standards would be nigh unto
impossible and before long some one would complain on the basis of racism and file a lawsuit. Efforts to exclude trouble makers would only result in
racism charges and the whole matter would fall by the wayside.
That's why I suggested perhaps it might work better in a country other than the US. There's no trust in anything here.
I agree with some of what you say, and disagree with some.
I agree that there will likely be issues that will cause discord because people are too self centered. You are never going to get more than two people
to always agree on anything. Some people are better at compromise than others, and compromise is not very well favored in our present society.
A conscious community can work, it is just not going to be easy. And it may not look as much like Rand's village and maybe a little more like the
little town I grew up in. It is going to take a long time for it to be well settled, and there will be a lot of adjustments, and adaptions, made along
the way. Some will come, many will go, some will return.
I may be looking at this wrong, but I am picturing an inclusive village, much like the one I grew up in. We were an isolated village, because the
closest city was a couple of hours away. Few people had cars readily at their disposal, so trips to town were planned. The only information we got
from the outside world came from the radio, and those that worked outside of our town, until the TV came along. Even then, only two or three homes had
TV sets. Those homes were gathering places, where folk met, usually on Sunday evenings to watch Lawrence Welk. The outside world at that time did not
really matter that much to the adults and us children never thought about it much.
We were not free of bigotry, and we were a diverse community. Everyone knew who the racist were. They didn't hide their hatred. They were just
ignored. I never heard of one of them every doing anything to harm anyone. They were just mean, and almost everyone gave them a wide berth.
We were very isolated, simply because of distance. Land was cheap, some were born on the land, and almost everyone was there because they just wanted
to make a better life for themselves and their children. As tiny as we were, we had three churches. A Catholic church, a Seven Day Adventist church
and a little further out a Baptist church. As children we went to all three. It allowed us to be with friends and there was always food. As children
the only difference we noticed was the amount and the quality of the food.
We lived in our isolated village, but we were part of the larger world, when it was necessary, or required. We had schools, but they where about 75
miles away, so the bus rides were long. We had only one hospital, it too was a long way away, but thank goodness the doctor made house calls, and
didn't demand money up front. I can only remember going to see two people in the hospital over the years I lived there. Back then hospitals were known
more for being a place rich people went to rest, than a place for medical treatment.
I work with community programs and I love serving my community. I have become what they call the "go to" person. That is the person they will call on
when they can't get anyone else to commit. Mainly because I really do like to serve.
One thing that became noticeable, is that every time we have an event, one person always because the leader. They don't have to be assigned, they just
step up, after enough start to follow, others join in. Sometimes, if a leader is assigned, mini groups will develop. Not because they dislike the
leader, but they just find their own way of doing things is easier and makes more sense. So far this has not been a problem, because we are all there
to serve, and get the job done, and most of us are very flexible.
There is often that one person that is going to do their own thing, and prefers to work in isolation, they will almost never allow help, because they
think helpers get in their way, and it takes twice as long to get anything done. It is just human nature.
People can work together in harmony. I have seen it working for over seven years. It just requires you to be flexible. Let people be them, whenever
possible. If someone wants to be given instruction, you just tell them what needs to be done, and you provide them with helpers. Most folk that
dedicate their time to serving, want to serve. They just want someone to tell them what to do, and they do it gladly. They receive joy with serving
and they don't want any additional weight of having to over think, or additional responsibility.
You have those that can't help themselves, they have to take charge of anything they are involved with, the have to lead. No problem, there are more
than enough that want guidance, so allow them to be helpers and they will lead their groups, and things usually run smoothly. For the loners, let them
have their space and just get out of their way.
It took me a while to realize that when working in large groups there is always going to be a period of adjustment. Personalities have to be matched
to create a pleasant working environment, and for the best outcomes.
I work with a very large and diverse group. Race has never been mentioned and it has never been an issue inside of our group. We have had to face
obstacles at times when serving new members of the community that are cautious of our intent, or if there is a language barrier, but the kind of race
issue that I am reading in your post, I don't think will be something that will be a significant issue. If they are racist, they will not find comfort
in being in our group.
Weeding out a troublemaker is not that hard to do. A troublemaker is only a problem if they have enough people agreeing with them. If a troublemaker
can't get anyone to go along with them, they either give it up, or they leave. If a troublemaker can get enough people to go along with them, then
your real problem may not be the troublemaker.
Addendum:
I forgot to add the most important part. I left home about ten years after high school, I did not return to the village until about twenty years
later. It was not there. The only place left was the Catholic graveyard, even the church was gone.
edit on 21-7-2021 by NightSkyeB4Dawn because: Addendum