posted on Mar, 20 2021 @ 10:05 AM
So at the end of the work day yesterday the Day care on base called me and said I need to get over there now, get there and they called Child services
Why you might be wondering, we don't coddle the boy and let him try things (not dangerous) but he often falls and gets bruises so he can learn. He
also has eczema on his legs pretty badly so rather than put him in sweat pants or jeans that trap heat against the skin we put him in long shorts so
he keeps air flow, if its chilly he always has a jacket and long sleeve shirt.
most recently he gave himself a black eye when he lost situational awareness near a bicycle and smacked himself with the pedal right under the eye.
wee immediately let them know when we dropped him off, apparently they thought that was absurd... please note my son is not even 3 and 3 feet tall and
40 lbs so his coordination is bad.
After getting out of my interview I called area defense council for advice, and then they told me since they called the state and not the base I will
have to get an off base lawyer if Miranda rights get read.
Then we had to take the boy to the emergency room to get looked at to make sure he wasn't hurt, thank god 4 hours after this started the doctor got
done and said I see nothing more than a boy that gets to play and good on us for letting him try and fail at different things.
she still is going to do a follow up visit, and I am still freaked out... because of the accusation that was never spelled out to us not one fricking
time, just vague innuendo and supposition.
Wife keeps telling me they are just doing their job, now I find myself second guessing everything... can I let him ride his balance bike what if he
falls off will they get called on us again, can I take him to the county faire, what if he trips and hurts himself, how in the ever living F#$%^ am I
supposed to calmly walk him back into the base day care knowing the accusations they made against us.
Now to the more me side of this rant, I am trying to change careers and some of the jobs I applied for require a Top secret security clearance, and
now I am F@#$% from those jobs.
So close to making the transition, and all of this on top of fixing (after the Tennent mucked it up) my house in oklahoma, buying a house in georgia
my stress level is about a 10k on a scale of 1-10.