OP, as far as I'm concerned, once you've had kids, one of you stays home at least until that kid is old enough to have a job themselves. The couple
doesn't get a choice, kids cannot raise themselves. And if you cannot or will not, you should never have had them to begin with.
Look, motherhood, and parenthood in general, isn't the hardest job out there, but it's far more important than a career desire is. Someone has to
sacrifice to see to it that the offspring don't turn out to be degenerates. And a latchkey kid has much higher odds of that without parental
supervision after activities end and they have to go home alone. Never mind the years of only seeing dad AND mom for a rushed dinner and then straight
How do people think this is a good life? It's not. By far and wide, this is a mean thing to damn a kid to, they need that constant guidance and
constant learning of the life ropes, not whenever mommy gets off work, and certainly not from a daycare or the influence of rotten friends you don't
know about because you BOTH work and never see them.
A widowed or a divorced parent, I can understand the need to work. But not a married one. She shouldn't need to, and if she does, she had better have
thought it through and found a homebody husband to take her place. If you're going to have children, you're going to raise them. You cannot have
everything you want once you choose that route. Saying you can is about as delusional as you can get, things and trips and money are only filling the
yoid created by being an absent parent. Only one is supposed to be absent, to provide. ONE.
originally posted by: butcherguy
a reply to: IAMALLYETALLIAM
I fear that the femme-hammer of doom shall be falling on you soon. Good luck.
It surely will. It's my belief that hammer comes from those posters' OWN inadequacies & regrets, it's why they shred so harshly. Has nothing to do
with gender freedoms, and everything to do with "I know that fact/notion/concept is logically correct, but I'm also right because feminism, I think,
therefore the dissident must die now".
edit on 7/23/2019 by Nyiah because: (no reason given)