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originally posted by: BrianFlanders
originally posted by: MykeNukem
originally posted by: BrianFlanders
LOL
Seriously!
Everyone is always searching for the secret to success and/or happiness. The truth is that it's all luck. The existence of this planet is just random chance. If you live long enough to watch the mighty fall, you will realize they never had any secret trick that made everything work for them. It just happened to them and they reaped the rewards. That's it. That's all it is. They didn't do anything special except exist. And if you aren't one of them, you didn't really do anything wrong except exist.
Why isn't this basic fact more widely recognized? One reason. The people who were not born with a lucky hand would probably just give up. That isn't profitable. Your suffering is probably the only thing of any real value that you possess. Perhaps there is a way to parlay that into success. If you're lucky enough to have the natural talent to do so.
But if it's just random chance, how can you parlay something into success?
Something is wrong with your theory...
Nope. You red it wong. You cannot parlay it into success unless you're lucky enough to be able to in the first place.
For example, you could spend your entire life doing everything someone else did and they succeeded but you didn't because your luck was just #.
originally posted by: Serdgiam
Im genuinely curious about the mindset here, Brian. Im just not catching what point you are trying to get across.
I dont really believe in luck, karma, or even randomness.
I mean, some would and have considered me very, very "unlucky." I cant control many of those things, but in the things that are in my realm of influence, or seem to be.. Im generally going to take the course(s) that have a higher probability of yielding the outcomes Id prefer.
originally posted by: InwardDiver
Are you stating that we have no control over the direction our lives take, or the quality thereof?
And most people know exactly what I'm talking about.
You cannot (for example) choose to be Einstein.
If you live long enough to watch the mighty fall, you will realize they never had any secret trick that made everything work for them.
It just happened to them and they reaped the rewards. That's it. That's all it is. They didn't do anything special except exist. And if you aren't one of them, you didn't really do anything wrong except exist.
Why isn't this basic fact more widely recognized?
One reason. The people who were not born with a lucky hand would probably just give up.
Your suffering is probably the only thing of any real value that you possess.
For example, you could spend your entire life doing everything someone else did and they succeeded but you didn't because your luck was just #.
An observation about the way things are that applies to everyone.
However, generally, my observation is that lucky people act like they did something to earn good luck. Which they didn't.
Luck (chance) is everything. Without it, you don't exist.
Success is more than just money.
For example, you can get lucky and win the lottery but still be unlucky enough to have the wrong type of mind to take advantage of it in a way that will work out well in the long run.
I saw an article somewhere about some redneck who won a bunch of money and ended up broke again in short order because that was just the kind of brain he had.
The title of this thread is what? "Why are lucky people so arrogant?" In it, we have a bunch of people who apparently got offended by the question.
I did not actually expect to encounter a bunch of arrogant "winners" (or delusional losers).
But fair enough. The overwhelming response to my question has been things like "You make your own luck" and "If you get diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor, you won't die if you refuse to accept it".
Seriously? What did they spike your kool aid with?
Reading these responses, I'm starting to understand why the world is in the pathetic state that it is in.
Even here on this forum where people who claim they like to think outside the box come to do that, they simply refuse to accept reality.
I don't know what else to say but if this is the prevailing attitude and mindset on ATS in 2019, nothing will ever change.