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You are commanded to procreate, but you have permission to seperate. Frequent sex leaves les desire for porn.
1 Corinthians 7:1-9 1 Now [I will discuss] the things you wrote to me about. It is good for a man not to marry. 2 But sexual sin is a danger. So each man should have his own wife. And each woman should have her own husband. 3 The husband should give his wife all that she should have as his wife. And the wife should give her husband all that he should have as her husband. 4 The wife does not have power over her own body. Her husband has the power over her body. And the husband does not have power over his own body. His wife has the power over his body. 5 Don't refuse to give your bodies to each other. But you might both agree to stay away [from sex] for a time. You might do this so that you can give your time to prayer. Then come together again. This is so that Satan (the Devil) cannot tempt you in your weakness. 6 I say this to give you permission [to be separated for a time]. It is not a command.
Originally posted by jlc163
I think the numbers are more like 95% of guys look at porn on at least an occasional basis (excluding those who looked once)...and 98% are on the road to abuse. Out of that would come about 60% of the guys eventually or are addicted to porn.
Let's look at some basic facts. The way guys are generally wired: by sight, and they have the constant urge to procreate, whether or not they act on it. Gir;s are mor einterested in the way things are said or done to them. (Suprisingly, you can go to the Bible for ways to talk to a woman about sex in the effort to turn them on: "Song of Solomon," Old Testament....it's rather ....descrpitive talk between Solomon and one of his wives. Women do like the poetic, not the dirty talk. Here)
As to ways to stop porn addiction:
Several things:
Specifically those who are of the Christian faith (or any faith envolving prayer). Have you taken the time to pray every time you have the urge? Do you even understand the power of prayer? The whole thing about Christianity is that you believe you have a God you can lean on, and yet you do not?
For married couples in Christianity, or those who find it a good idea outside of the faith: Those who are married are are directly commanded to NEVER abstain from each other, except fpr mutual consent (as in a time of prayer and fasting).You are commanded to procreate, but you have permission to seperate. Frequent sex leaves les desire for porn.
1 Corinthians 7:1-9 1 Now [I will discuss] the things you wrote to me about. It is good for a man not to marry. 2 But sexual sin is a danger. So each man should have his own wife. And each woman should have her own husband. 3 The husband should give his wife all that she should have as his wife. And the wife should give her husband all that he should have as her husband. 4 The wife does not have power over her own body. Her husband has the power over her body. And the husband does not have power over his own body. His wife has the power over his body. 5 Don't refuse to give your bodies to each other. But you might both agree to stay away [from sex] for a time. You might do this so that you can give your time to prayer. Then come together again. This is so that Satan (the Devil) cannot tempt you in your weakness. 6 I say this to give you permission [to be separated for a time]. It is not a command.
DO things to prevent you from having easy access to porn. Create a command account for your computer and start denying access to your favorite pornsite for all users and DO NOT USE THAT ACCOUNT. Over time, if will be harder to find porn, so you lessen your time looking at it, if not for it.
Keep yourself busy: Start looking up the headlines for news stories, and related stories in search, for ATS never ending drive for news. Believe me, 2-4 stories a day will give you little time to look at porn.
Every time you get the urge to look, chant "I will not look at porn" in a stressed out huddled balll until you gain control of yourself.
Go to a mirror every morning and tell your reflection that you will not look at porn today. May not stop the whole process, but eventually, it does help.
GET MARRIED. And STICK TO IT, even when it's hard.
LOOK FOR A SUPPORT GROUP.
Set up a chart of where you went today online, and WRITE DOWN every single site you went to, and circle the one's that were a waste of your time. Believe me, even the small things help.
Originally posted by nightbreid
Pornography affects the same areas of the brain as certain drugs, thus the addiction. With addiction comes the need for more: MAXIM leads to PLAYBOY leads to HUSTLER leads to whatever other form of visual deviance is out there. Like drug addiction, the stronger the better. I'd say men are more addicted to porn than women based on the physical make-up between the sexes. Myself, I find porn a boring, creativity-robbing instrument in the same class as TV. Imagination is where it's at.
Originally posted by 00PS