posted on Feb, 22 2005 @ 10:20 AM
Hey let adopt the girl and like that the problem will be fix we bring it to the US.
In the other hand, Pakistani still in this day and time chose the partners to their daughters depending on status.
My daughter has a Pakistani friend that her sister was ready for marriage, she was 25 and already graduated from college as a dentist.
Because they are citizens of the US she was given "The choice" of candidate, occurs only pakistani boys, without knowing the candidates she was
engaged to candidate one, a doctor, young, the day she met him she didn't liked him so the family broke the engagement and then she was given
candidate two also a doctor, young, she met him after the engagement and she found him attractive so the wedding was followed with all the festivities
after two months, my daughter attended the festivities as a guess of the bride and she said it was beautiful and the groom was very good looking.
But after the wedding the bride was not happy, she is back in her parents at home the groom love her but the girl is confused occurs it will be not
My daughter's friend said that she will run away if she is force to marry somebody she does not like she is the youngest sister anyway.
But it seems that in Pakistani tradition the bride to be family has the right to stop the engagement so is the possibility that these marriage a
arrangement will never happen when the littler girl turns 18.