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originally posted by: Oldtimer2
a reply to: Boadicea
Only way he can be helped is by wanting to quit,otherwise becomes a game,if someone has the desire they can quit,but some love the drama
I've heard Vitamin C stops the craving for nicotine. It's worth a try.
www.doctoryourself.com...
^^ This is the truest statement in this thread. If he does "sober up" be careful to help him identify and fix what actually is wrong with him. Remind him over and over who he "really is".
originally posted by: one4all
Alcohol is an anti-parasitic and if you wish to break the alcohol grip simply use a stronger more well rounded anti-parasitic and you will crave it stronger than you crave alcohol....
It's crazy how sober you are if you're an alcoholic with a drink, after withdrawing
originally posted by: mysterioustranger
a reply to: Boadicea
There is no good or best time. They are alcoholic 24-7. Gotta get help w strength in numbers and try as best as you all can to band together to make your point. It will probably fall on deaf ears though.
Never give up trying to get thru...never stop spreading the love. My mother-in-law has had so many brain cells damaged she barely remembers the last 60 yrs.
Fight the good fight, and don't stop trying. Keep up with us...I'm rooting for you.And God Bless you for caring!
MS
...the only alcoholics who i know who quit, hit the gym almost everyday as a substitute.
originally posted by: Boadicea
a reply to: KansasGirl
Thank you, KS -- and congratulations on your sobriety! I am appreciating more what a challenge and achievement that is. Good for you and brightest blessings!
I'm glad you shared your thought's on intervention. I've been hesitant to go that route, mostly because I'm afraid he'll feel ambushed or ganged up on and withdraw even further into his shell.
I did find a place that does detox. I seriously doubt he has insurance right now though. He lost his job a while ago apparently, and he's too old for his parents' insurance plan. I know of a couple resources that may be able to help pay for it though. I'm going to check those out today.
originally posted by: Boadicea
a reply to: rickymouse
Thank you! I'm so glad you joined the discussion!!! You always have good info.
At least one of the alcohol clinics I checked out does prescribe anti-alcohol medications. I'm a little concerned about the Suboxone treatment, as it seems to have some serious possible adverse effects. Especially if he continues drinking while taking it. But the antabuse may be of value.
Thanks for the food tips. I will look for more benzo/healing foods for him as well.
Absolutely agree, the 'need' for the next drink is caused by the early symptoms of withdrawal.
originally posted by: TheConstruKctionofLight
a reply to: Reverbs
For a while there everytime I fell off the wagon I returned where I left off.; more and more alochol.
You are not sober as the BAL is still there - the relief from anxiety caused by the withdrawal is what you're feeling.