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"I told him I wasn't really cool with having casual sex with a spirit and I wanted us to make a proper commitment to each other. "If I am going to be in a long-term relationship with somebody I have the right to be married. "I wanted the big traditional wedding with the white dress, it was very important to me." Amanda found a Shaman priest and legal registrar who agreed to marry the couple - despite their unusual relationship dynamic.
She also held a flag bearing a skull and crossbone as a symbol for her husband. "I told him I didn't want him to see the dress before the wedding but if he had a cheeky sneak peak while I was trying it on, I wouldn't know," Amanda says. "I don't know where he is or when he is around most of the time - it is hard to keep secrets from him."
"The only difference with having a sexual relationship with a spirit is obviously that sense of touch goes a lot deeper. "You can feel the weight of the spirit, their touch, the pressure. "You can literally feel the physical act of what the spirit is doing to you, and the spirit can feel it too."
She says: "Shortly after we got married, my periods stopped. I did a couple of pregnancy tests and they came back positive - I was shocked! "I did not think I had to worry about birth control when having sex with a spirit. "On further tests it turns out it was the start of the menopause, and sometimes you can get high HPG readings - what a relief that was."