posted on Sep, 10 2017 @ 07:00 AM
a reply to: Shuye
Your OP s very interesting. You write very eloquently and your thought processes are very intelligent. You are showing that you are able to analyze
and rationalize in a very clear way to the point of refinement. It is actually very attractive, too.
I am cursed by the Virgo curse, too. I am Cancerian, but nearly all my family are Virgo. The people who I engage with most successfully are Virgos (my
long standing best friend is a Virgo, too). However, there is friction. It is rather strange that friction walks hand in hand with successful
interaction. I have had "lullaby" friends who whisper sweet nothings, but they have dispersed like pretty rainbow bubbles in the air as a matter of
rule. There is something inherently honest and truthful about Virgos. You are really hard to deal with, espesh for a Cancerian, yet worth it big time.
It's much easier to step back and allow what you're focused on to reveal itself. Observation is more powerful than reaction.
It may be that you are drastically underscoring yourself. If indeed you do have negative thoughts then you are dealing with them most effectively and
transforming. Perhaps these are the dynamics of the Virgo personality, but as you say this is your personal strategy. You are analyzing because of the
discomfort of the negative thought experiences that are outside of your immediate control. You transform the negativity through analysis and
appreciate the wider perspective.
Yep, you are like my family members and my best friend, too.
EDIT: I have wildly positive thoughts as a rule, but they require serious "editing". I mess up so much because of wanting to impose my super duper
unrealistic vision upon the world. I desperately need the shackles and reason of the Virgo mind. I wish I had a Virgo partner. I often joked with my
best friend that I wish I could find a female version of him. However, Virgo women do not seem attracted to bundles of emotion like me. I think they
do like the challenge of all that fuzzy chaos though perhaps. I know I do wind up all those nearest and dearest. My Dad, Brother and Sister (twins)
and my brother's wife are all Virgos. Two Virgos in one relationship yet by Jove, it works. They are a force to be reckoned with as a couple. If any
same sign couple could emerge victorious it would have to be Virgo.
edit on 10-9-2017 by Revolution9 because: (no reason given)