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originally posted by: xsocomx
Thanks guys some strong advice.
I am 31 years old.
My heart is telling me to pursue.
My brain is telling my to stop you have everything you need.
The sensible thing would be for me to forget this other girl. But I cant stop thinking about her.
I just feel as though I need to know how "she" is feeling before I can work all of this out in my head.
I will hurt many in the process if I did go ahead. But is this the price of true happiness?
I have always let thing fly past me because I am so considerate of other. Selfless even.
Maybe this is a test from the gods. But it is eating at me from the inside out.
originally posted by: worldstarcountry
a reply to: mkultra11
What?? If they can agree to be good swingers and only share each other, how does that not work out for everybody?? Well I guess its not for everyone. What a coincidence, I am also 31.
originally posted by: InTheLight
a reply to: xsocomx
Do you really think your bride to be has never gone through this too? Check yourself. She has and has let them go over you. Stop looking for greener grasses.
originally posted by: mkultra11
originally posted by: xsocomx
Thanks guys some strong advice.
I am 31 years old.
My heart is telling me to pursue.
My brain is telling my to stop you have everything you need.
The sensible thing would be for me to forget this other girl. But I cant stop thinking about her.
I just feel as though I need to know how "she" is feeling before I can work all of this out in my head.
I will hurt many in the process if I did go ahead. But is this the price of true happiness?
I have always let thing fly past me because I am so considerate of other. Selfless even.
Maybe this is a test from the gods. But it is eating at me from the inside out.
If you throw away what you established with a girl you obviously want to spend the rest of your life with for damaged goods with a kid then you are a sucker. She's looking to jump ship bc you're a nice guy she can lure into her troubled life. Of course she's your soul mate and you have everything in common! Do you know anything about her marriage problems? Stay away, cut them off. Go away for a weekend with you fiance bc this other girl is about to ruin your life. Unless you don't love your fiance and don't let it be bc you met this girl.
originally posted by: whyamIhere
Clearly, call off the Wedding.
Nobody should enter marriage with these thoughts.
If you don't, you will have a failed marriage.