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originally posted by: DAVID64
a reply to: Profusion
Do you intentionally put yourself in these situations or do they just happen? You have got to have the most screwed up relationships I have ever seen.
If you're still in love with the ex [ and it certainly sounds like it ] why are you dating the new one? Why are you letting the ex back in your life? It sounds like she has you wrapped around her finger and you jump when she calls.
You are setting yourself up for another fall.
And why do you keep asking "us"? You already know what you want, you're just looking for someone to tell you it's ok.
originally posted by: wheresthebody
How would you feel if the best friend of the girl your dating happened to be her ex? And he was coming to visit her?
It'll be healthier for you to just move on.
originally posted by: Macenroe82
Or wait until after the visit from the ex, to go on the date. Then you dont have to say anything.
Cancel the April 8th date.
Tell her you got a screaming case of Diarrhea. That should buy you some time.
The ex comes and goes. You call up the girl you want to date and tell her its all cleared up,
your ready and able to leave the house.
Things will work out perfectly.
originally posted by: JDmOKI
a reply to: Profusion
Rule number #1 don't talk to ex girlfriends
And don't lie to your new girl that's selfish
originally posted by: Vector99
a reply to: Profusion
Your ex is just that, your ex. Friendship isn't a possibility, because it will continue to haunt you in every relationship ever.
Drop the ex completely from your life if you ever want to move on in life.
originally posted by: JDmOKI
a reply to: Profusion
I dunno because it make you wanna lie and go behind the back of your current girlfriend
Difference between being friendly and actually seeing that person. You're just asking for more drama.
But it also sounds like you still love your ex