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originally posted by: snowspirit
a reply to: Profusion
"I got back in touch with my last real-life girlfriend, and she told me that she's not sure if she wants to have a baby. Essentially the entire reason I broke up with her is because she told me she had to have her own baby. She admitted that she lied about that. "
And stuff happens. Maybe she lied, maybe she didn't. If your last girlfriend was under the age of 30, and not medically altered to never have a baby, then she has every right to change her mind a dozen times, to whether or not she wants her own child.
They way you worded the above, makes it sound like if she got pregnant, you'd have left her......still, never is never, "never"
originally posted by: Profusion
I think if you review what you wrote in the thread linked to in the original post, you may understand how I felt after my last real-life girlfriend tried to break up with me the way she did. I was heartbroken and in great pain. Since I thought we were doomed long-term, I may have been looking for a way out subconsciously. I wasn't consciously looking for someone else, the thing with the second woman happened by accident.
I may never try a serious relationship again.