a reply to: dude200181
1. clean up your space, you never know when you might want to ask someone over. The last thing you want is a dirty car and a messy place. It can be
a deal breaker.
2. Stretch, do as many pushups as you can..stretch..wait 10m do as many as you can stretch..wait 10-15 mins ..do as many as you can. Do this every
other day and put your arms in different positions. In about a month your chest will be draped over your abs and your arms will be twice as wide
around. You will feel much stronger. You will be much stronger. Girls love that, just like we like it when they are in decent shape. They notice.
Girls notice your shoes more than your face. Georgeous girls will sleep with very ugly men, looks just do not matter as much to them overall, with
some exceptions of course.
3. Dress as nice as you can, do not overdress. Always be clean, smell good, brush your teeth after eating or smoking. Flauss.
4. Sign up to zoosk or match or a reputible dating site. Go out to bars, churches,libraires, volunteer, social events.. Smile and inteoduce yourself.
Read a joke book or ten. Pick funny non controversial jokes at first. Pool joints are good because you have the game to play and talk about as your
mutual comfort level increases that takes about 20 minutes. Ask girls if they want to be your pool partner. Buy them one drink, no more. Ask her if
you can call her and ask her out. Be cool about it if they say no.
Rember : You only need one to say yes and you're in like Flynn. Keep asking do not let the no's get you down. It's hard at first but train yourself
to let no bounce off. You have to do this, or it is emotionally devastating. Do not let 100 nos stop you. 101 might become your wife.
If she says no, bounce to another bar and try again. If you go out, talk to five to seven women at least. I bet you get at least one number.
Do not drink too much, two or three..nursed.. You are there to hunt..not get too drunk. No weed, your eyes will be red and you will make bad eye
contact and all the subtle visual queues and microexpressions will be a tiny bit out of wack.
Eye contact is very important., Stare just a second too long, smile, then look away, not down. It is good if it is a little obvious, but don't gawk.
Don't make her feel uncomfortable, just appreciated. Don't look back until she does. Then..approach. Hesitate now, and it's over before it began.
Your line is : Hi, I'm [name]. What's your name?
Smile. Make a joke. Ask her something..Listen to what she says. Tell a joke..question, showing that you were actually listening..tell another joke
..questions...music she likes? Sports fan?..If she likes and you don't..do both of you a favor and ..next. If you're still there.do something..dance
pool drink make a toast..whatever..ask her a little more about herself..not her job. If she asks you something answer, but be brief. A bit vaugue (
Oh, I do stuff ). Don't boast. Don't lie. Be a little Mysterious. Try your best not to look at or talk to her tits. You will fail at this. That is
ok. Make an effort. She will see you making an effort. That is good. An uncalled for smile from her is a good sign. Ask for her number. Put it your
phone right then. Text her right there. Tell her you will call her tomorrow and aks when would be the best time. Send her a text later on anyway, but
not too late, and tell her how much you enjoyed meeting her.
Have another drink or two, have fun. Don't try too hard to close the deal tonight. If that's possible, you will know it. Your space is tidy and
ready, even if it's your parents basement. I boned a lot of chicks in my folks basement...with no job...at 24. I was in school, I worked off and
on..didnt waste money so I had a little..never a lot...but enough to have a little fun.
The date : You pick the place or thing let her pick the time. Day dates are great..sailboat rental..rollerblades ..walk in the park..art
gallery..museum. outdoor concert..not festival ..yet. Nothing too expensive, restaurant in your budget..mow a few yards..spread mulch rake leaves
make a little money..it's enough. Not too high end, not McD's. Drink or two, ask her what she wants. Tell the waiter what she will have and then
what you will have. Eat, don't talk too much..use your manners. Relax. Don't talk too loud. Look her in the eye a lot now. Ask her questions
listen..follow up questions..Feed her some of your food. Let her feed you back. Smile at her..make her laugh. Pay the check..tip 20% unless she
complains about the service..then tip 15%.
Offer her an escort to her car/ drive her home. Kiss her. Don't be to pushy or too shy. If you go in for the kiss and you get a cheek..take it with a
smile. Thank her for a nice time and split. Call her the next day and ask her out again. Repeat x2. If your not kissing after that..next.
If she doesn't look nice for you on your first date, or she is more than 20 minutes late with notice let this be the last date. She's milking you for
free food and drinks. Chicks do that. Don't let it get you down. Cut it short..You gotta thing..cya. Fail to text back right away. You can say
what you feel like at this point..but remain a gentleman..she may poison other girls against you. Chicks can be very vindictive, even if they werent
that into you and you cut it short first.
"Well, this doesnt seem like it was important to you..You were late etc. I don't think we clicked that well. If she appologizes and seems sincere,
let her take you out next time. You aren't easy and you're not a meal ticket. That date..expect to get tounged.
At this point, even with a few false starts, nature will be taking its course. You don't need to rush in for the sex like all the media would have us
believe. You need to find out if she is a psycho kitty first. If she is, it will out by the third or forth date. if she is, if your built in pyscho
kittydar is going off...listen to it..and click to the next chick please. Let it take it's own time. When it's working, you both will know it.
Best advice I ever got with women was Michal Jordan, who said : " You will miss every shot that you don't take"
When I say next, it's not a justification to be mean. Be polite, if you, don't call..it's usually enough. If she calls ..just say thanks but no
thanks..we didn't click. Take care..and thanks.
If and when you meet a good one even if she isnt 100%..seriously think about marrying her. Ben Franklin said this and I think he was right. It's
easier to adjust to your differences when you are younger. And you have less baggage to deal with. If she cheats on you but doesn't leave, forgive
When you disagree, try to remain calm. If you can't break off, cool down, come back. Be sorry you got upset, but don't automatically cave in. Work
out a solution..it not easy, it is worth it. If she hits you, run.
As you get older, the pickins get slimmer and sooner than you think, only the psycho kitties are left, or ones with another dudes kids, you will maybe
not like them..even if you like her. They may not like you much either. Lions, among other animals, often kill off all cubs that are not theres when
they take over the pride...just saying..If you like her existing kids, you're beating the odds.
Wish I had known that at 24.