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originally posted by: dreamlotus1111
you are only fighting with yourself if you choose not be at peace with the fact that others have differing opinions then your own.
originally posted by: donktheclown
a reply to: Profusion
As I tried to describe in the original post, there's no point in trying to reason with them because they ignore anything they don't want to hear IMHO.
I believe you're leaving out perspective. Yours is your own and nobody else's.
Might I suggest getting along with people by not insisting they see things the same as you. Just a thought.
originally posted by: Profusion
Let's get definitions out of the way first.
I don't think there is a set definition of "personal truth." My interpretation is the following:
Personal truth is what someone has come to believe as "true" for them or to them through individual experiences or insights.
www.answers.com...
Solipsism has a fixed definition:
a theory in philosophy that your own existence is the only thing that is real or that can be known
www.merriam-webster.com...
I'm a believer in personal truth. I think it's a very real and useful concept. The problem I have is when people state personal truth as absolute truth. (Please don't argue in this thread about whether or not absolute truth exists. The people I'm discussing here obviously do believe that absolute truth exists so whether it exists in reality is a red herring in this thread in my opinion.)
When do you know that someone is stating personal truth as absolute truth? In my experience, that usually happens when someone discusses how their personal truth is equal to absolute truth. Let's say we're discussing the topic, "Are apples red?" A color blind person (suffering from protanopia) that demanded that their personal truth was absolute truth would assert that apples aren't red because they've never seen a red apple.
I've seen the concept of personal truth as absolute truth carried to unbelievable extremes. For example, I've heard people say (paraphrasing), "I know X, Y, or Z (as absolute truth) about Jesus based on my personal walk with him." I think that's absurd but I respect the concept of personal truth so as long as that belief stays in the realm of personal truth, I've got no problem with it.
The next step that sometimes happens is where solipsism comes in. Sometimes people that have a personal truth want to claim that it's absolute truth with no evidence offered at all (or insufficient evidence is offered to prove what they're arguing). At that point, they're expunging everyone else's right to have personal truth (or to express any possible absolute truth for that matter) and that is de facto solipsism.
Why? Because by stripping everyone else of the right to have their own personal truth (while claiming your personal truth is absolute truth), you're stating literally, "your own existence is the only thing that is real or that can be known." By shutting everyone else's personal truth (and any possible absolute truth) out like that, you're exhibiting solipsism, by definition.
And generally speaking, in my experience, once we get that far, don't even try discussing absolute truth with someone acting like a solipsist, that's going nowhere.
...a relationship with someone who doesn't care about truth?
originally posted by: ImmortalLegend527
a reply to: Profusion
Just because you think, it is the truth does not mean your right, respect every body’s way of thinking and just accept who they are.
‘Nobody thinks alike in this world’
Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them."
originally posted by: schuyler
Long time ago I meat a "genius" young man. He really was, and he certainly had been treated as one. I made the mistake of using the word "cool" in a sentence that indicated approval of something rather than the temperature. He responded to me that my use of the word "cool" was incorrect because it was a definition of temperature.
I think my jaw dropped at this point. So I told him,
"Words mean what people want them to mean, and if the majority of people easily understand that the word "cool" stands for something they feel positive about, that's what it means. You are being "prescriptive" meaning that you are insisting on a dictionary definition where I am being "descriptive," using the word like the majority of people in fact do use it. That doesn't mean "cool" does not have a definition related to temperature, but that's not the only definition, and it's up to you to be smart enough to know the difference."
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originally posted by: Profusion
Because by stripping everyone else of the right to have their own personal truth (while claiming your personal truth is absolute truth), you're stating literally, "your own existence is the only thing that is real or that can be known."
originally posted by: Profusion
How do you have a relationship with someone who doesn't care about truth?