Yesterday I had to call the police on my employer just to get my last check.

a reply to: wasaka

I certainly understand the challenges of a fruit bat crazy partner, I was with one myself for a few years and it was only the mindblowing sexual connection we had which kept us together, never connected better with anyone before or since her.
She savagely bit my nose and face in a verbal argument one time though, that was too much for me and I walked away with a broken heart.
When a person has # like that going on in life then all other challenges are magnified, so learning your back story my ridicule ceases and I wish you the best with your wider relationship challenges.

originally posted by: DAVID64
Seriously? You threatened to sic your wife on them? No wonder they got away with jerking you around. Grow a pair and stop expecting wifey to stand up for you. Jeez. Man, that's embarrassing.

Do you feel embarrassed? I don't.

My wife will do more damage to them than the cops would do.
I was letting the ASS HOLES get off easy. It was a kindness.

In my judgement, that makes a supremely nice guy.
I'm a very considerate person and want the best for
all concerned. I use my creativity to create a win-
win type outcome when ever I can.

This is why I took a measured approach to the problem
rather than act my rash impulse that wound only lead
to property damage and land me in the poe poe.

When faced with bad options, I acted responsibility.
I acted in the best interest of everyone. Still there
are POOP HEADS on this thread who want to snip
and judge my case from their comfort zone.

Life only begins when you get out of your comfort zone.
I am not here to play games with CON Artists who are
on a False Authority ego-power trip.

I speak truth to power and I expose lies by
revealing the truth. Nothing to be ashamed
of in that. I just try to do the right thing
and call those around me to do the same.

If I must appeal to authority to get others
to do the right thing. Then I will. That is
expressly why that authority is in place.

If you hold a different opinion, that is
your prerogative. Leave me to mine.

originally posted by: grainofsand
a reply to: wasaka

I certainly understand the challenges of a fruit bat crazy partner, I was with one myself for a few years and it was only the mindblowing sexual connection we had which kept us together, never connected better with anyone before or since her.
She savagely bit my nose and face in a verbal argument one time though, that was too much for me and I walked away with a broken heart.
When a person has # like that going on in life then all other challenges are magnified, so learning your back story my ridicule ceases and I wish you the best with your wider relationship challenges.

Wow brother, that is.... I have no words.
yes, the sex is the best, or was until this
job started to mess with my money, and
then it stopped. So you can also see why
I was on edge and ready to explode.

All things considered, I'm doing the best
one could hope for under the pressure
of dealing with a partner who has a lot
of TOXIC EMOTIONS and PSYCHIC PAIN.

The challenge is to model the opposite
of seeing a world of LACK and LOSS.

The challenge is to lead by example
and not engage in FEAR and ATTACK.

Sadly, as your case shows, sometimes
you must let go and drop those things
or people who can't receive love or
will not amid their Bad Attitude and
the bad behavior that follows it.

I'm up for the challenge
I'm equipped for challenge

But those may be my famous last words.

This could be losing battle, it could all go down
in flames, but I'm in it to win it.

I'd like to believe it makes me a better person.
And that in healing this PSYCHIC PAIN (if it is
possible to do so) that my efforts also help
to heal the world.

In any case, I will grow spiritually and unlearn
my own flawd coping strategies. And through
it all, I will draw on the Light of Heaven.

For me, Death is not real. I do not live in FEAR.
Heaven is my home, and this world is the Hell.
When it come time for me to cross-over, it
will be a seamless event. I have the joy
of heaven in my life right now, and so
crossing over is no big deal.

I'm not waiting to die, I'm waiting to be born.
My dwelling place has no self-inflicted pain.
My home is expansive bliss, joy, and peace.
Nothing else is real, nothing else exists.

Suicide would be a sweet relief.
Don't get me wrong, I'm going out like that.
But I do not blame those who do.

ROTFL,this thread is like a trailer park soap opera special. You got the overreacting drama-queen wife using violence to get her way no matter what, and the spineless husband too whipped to say "Shut up, It's MY job, not yours!"

I mean, this whole freakin' home life is damn sad. Amusing sad, not tears of sympathy sad. Grow a pair, stand up to your wife, remind the cow who's the one working, tell her to STFU or get her own job to bitch about, and see how it pans out from there. Good god.

originally posted by: wasaka

yes, the sex is the best, or was until this
job started to mess with my money, and
then it stopped.

nyiah, did you catch this line?
bwuahahahahahahahahahahaah

youre a funny dude op.

a reply to: wasaka

get a netter telemarketing job

originally posted by: TinySickTears

originally posted by: wasaka

yes, the sex is the best, or was until this
job started to mess with my money, and
then it stopped.

nyiah, did you catch this line?
bwuahahahahahahahahahahaah

youre a funny dude op.

I did. Talk about the worst hooker ever. Lives with you, takes all your money, tells you what to do, disrespects you & everything else around her.

HEY!

It might seem funny to some folk around here, to bait and taunt and ridicule the OP, and I am sure that no one around here means anything terrible by it, but do you, any of you realise just how insensitive and unwise it is to make fun of someone who is clearly going through a very troublesome period in their lives?

To the OP, this is REAL LIFE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT! This is not some crappy day time television show, or a cheap Days Of Our Lives knock off with even shoddier camera work and equipment than the original had! This is REAL LIFE for one of us. This website, this membership is not meant to be a place where people come to get insulted, badgered, mocked and made to feel five hundred times worse for airing their issues, than they did before they posted. We are meant to be better than this. We should know better than this. This is not twitter, this is not Facebook, or any of the other low brow, mindless gutter sites. We are meant to be supportive and nourishing to one another, and I think it would be wise for those who are not capable of making any constructive commentary on the situation, to think very hard before posting more taunts, especially upon such personal and sensitive matters as those being dealt with in this thread.

Please have some common respect, or at least some decorum. Standards people. Let's keep this site something to be proud of? Pretty please?

originally posted by: sweets777
a reply to: wasaka

get a netter telemarketing job

Done. now I just need to ask other people
for money the don't have for a service that
they don't need. Great country we live in.

But all bitterness to the side, sales is
the great equalizer. It is the way POOR
PEOPLE can climb up, it is also why they
envy the rich and hold their bad example
up as the model to follow.

The world is a viscous place and in our
culture deceit is rewarded above all else.
The CIA funded Obama "Project Deception"
is proof of that. They made this guy in a
test tube -- THEY created him.

So I do what I must... to survive.
That does not mean I like it.

I see the fake world for what it is.
An place where evil flurishes and
those most abused defend that
same abusive system until death
take them away.

Why?

It is all so meaningless.

a reply to: TrueBrit

It's really difficult to take someone seriously when they're calling damn near everyone who responds some name or another. I make no promises of behaving, but I'll try to not cross any inappropriate low-blow lines anymore.

a reply to: TrueBrit

Agreed.
I ridiculed the original rant initially (and I'll stand by that based on the known information at the time) but the back story developed and if anyone has read this thread in full then they can see quickly that ridicule now is not appropriate.
You are correct, this is not fakebook or twatter, and long may ATS never become such an online place.
[/shudders at the thought]

originally posted by: TheLotLizard
Moral of the story, don't get married?

I thought it was to my understanding you would have needed to put in a two weeks notice to get paid on time, and if not you have to wait until the billing period was over to get it. If it was the day after the billing period that you quit you would have to wait another two weeks.

As I said before, this was pay day.
I was expect to get my check from
work i did three week prior.

Now the guy I work with tell me they
want to make him wait and extra week
(four weeks out) so that the pay check
equal out for everyone, so they get on
the same pay schedule.

Like most things they said, this make
no sense what-so-ever. It is just more
of the BS they dish out on a regular
interval like the human waste that
it is. POOP POOP HEADS.

Getting married is a bad I idea, IMO
I do not recommend it to the faint of heart.
I did it only because I am a glutton for punishment.

originally posted by: Nyiah
a reply to: TrueBrit

It's really difficult to take someone seriously when they're calling damn near everyone who responds some name or another. I make no promises of behaving, but I'll try to not cross any inappropriate low-blow lines anymore.

Call I still call you WET PUSSY CAT =)

originally posted by: TrueBrit

HEY!

It might seem funny to some folk around here, to bait and taunt and ridicule the OP, and I am sure that no one around here means anything terrible by it, but do you, any of you realise just how insensitive and unwise it is to make fun of someone who is clearly going through a very troublesome period in their lives?

To the OP, this is REAL LIFE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT! This is not some crappy day time television show, or a cheap Days Of Our Lives knock off with even shoddier camera work and equipment than the original had! This is REAL LIFE for one of us. This website, this membership is not meant to be a place where people come to get insulted, badgered, mocked and made to feel five hundred times worse for airing their issues, than they did before they posted. We are meant to be better than this. We should know better than this. This is not twitter, this is not Facebook, or any of the other low brow, mindless gutter sites. We are meant to be supportive and nourishing to one another, and I think it would be wise for those who are not capable of making any constructive commentary on the situation, to think very hard before posting more taunts, especially upon such personal and sensitive matters as those being dealt with in this thread.

Please have some common respect, or at least some decorum. Standards people. Let's keep this site something to be proud of? Pretty please?

Tru.BRITT you often have the most appropriate response on ATS.
You are a wise and thoughtful person, and my Spirit honors you.

The Indians in California who had spent decades resisting or evading the Spanish missionaries and conquistadors were finally reduced to near total extermination by the American gold miners who overran their hunting grounds, villages and burial sites, murdered and scalped for bounties, kidnapped Indian women to serve as prostitutes and Indian children as slaves. Historian Alan Josephy called the treatment of California Indians “as close to genocide as any tribal people had faced, or would face, on the North American continent.”

By the 1880’s 30 million buffalo had been killed merely for their hides and less than one thousand remained. In the Texas legislature General Sheridan, sounding like Heinrich Himmler, declared “for the sake of everlasting peace, let them kill, skin and sell until the buffalo are exterminated”, since it would do more to settle the “Indian problem” than anything else by starving them out. Also by that time, the Eastern Indians in the United States had been moved to substandard land on reservations on land that was deemed valueless to the Christian White Man at the time. The reservations were no better than glorified concentration camps and Indians died in the thousands from the inability to sustain themselves, corruption of Indian agents, neglect and disease. Segregated within reservations, they were excluded from the American economy and political system. They could not vote, had no elected representatives, had no voice in the political process and were forced into a complex web of treaties that had no legal status for them. Of the more than 400 treaties signed with the US government, many of which they did not understand, not a single one was honored. When the greedy capitalists discovered gold, oil and other valuable minerals on their originally considered useless land, they were ruthlessly exploited once again. It continues to this day.

Mohandas Ghandi was once asked what he
thought of Western Civilization. His response
was “It would be a good idea.”

Ghandi’s terse response prompts us to ask “what exactly is civilization anyway?” It certainly has precious little to do with “civility” as any interchange with our dysfunctional culture of narcissism and greed quickly demonstrates. Dictionary definitions I have not found particularly helpful because they’re generally mired in self-serving ethnocentric bias. The OED is not particularly helpful, defining it as “a developed or advanced state of human society,” prompting one to ask what is meant by “developed” or “advanced.”

Religions, ideologies, doctrinaire world views and the need for certainty are invariably the refuge of the fearful, those who fear change, ambiguity and the loss of their privileged position within society. That’s why the modern monolithic nation state is founded on the written word, perhaps an offshoot of the ingrained notion of an unchanging Biblical literalism. It has become the bludgeon that provides for contraction of meaning and a singular mythology, loyalty, patriotism and devotion, the framing of discourse, entitlement and the affirmation of power for those who already have it.

This conception of a nation state was antithetical to the Native North American anarchistic world view. Castenada, a Franciscan priest who accompanied Coronado’s expedition, described the Hopis of New Mexico as living in “complete equality, neither exercising authority nor demanding obedience.” Castenada’s remark was a not uncommon observation by white Christian invaders of socialistic libertarian Native North American societies. Native peoples in North America believed that humans are merely a constituent of the natural world, not a chosen species instructed to master and exploit it with impunity. They had no conception of private property, believing that the world and its bounty was granted to all by their “Creator” and that no group or individual had the right to own any part of it. To the North American Indians, land had a very different meaning – culturally, economically and spiritually. “Sell a country!” Tecumseh shouted at a meeting of the representatives of the Northwest Territory in 1810. “Why not sell the air, the clouds, the rivers and the great sea as well as the entire earth?” Did not the Great Spirit make them all for the use of his children?”

a reply to: wasaka

Professor Jack D Forbes, former chair of Native American Studies and professor of anthropology at the University of California, Davis, was born in Long Beach but has lived in Berkeley and Davis since 1967. Forbes has modified the Ten Commandments , a revision by what he calls the “Ecumenical Council of Right-Wing Christianity convened by the Archbishop of Anti-Communism and attended by distinguished theologians following orthodox religious orders: the Society of Bible-Belt Racists, the Order of Secret Police, the Brothers of Military Glory, the Captains of Anti-Union Industry, the Society of Extortionists, Pornographers and Hit-men, the Sons of Apartheid, the High Priests of the CIA, the Improved Order of Successful Medical Doctors, the Mystic Order of International Bankers, and sundry other respected, powerful, and wealthy bodies":

1. Thou shalt make a profit.

2. Thou shalt disown thy parents when they become old and send them away to perish alone; but thou shalt put on an expensive funeral for them for appearances sake.

3. Thou shalt deceive with false looks and flattering words, for appearances are everything.

4. Thou shalt gather to thyself alone as many material things as thou can obtain.

5. Thou shalt save and hoard, sharing not with others unless for thy own self-interest.

6. Thou shalt adulterate the foods which people eat, and deprive them of healthy sustenance.

7. Thou shalt take whatever thou can from the forest, from the earth, from the air, or from the defense­less and weak.

8. Thou shalt kill whenever it profits thee, and thou shalt exalt killing and violence since all progress results therefrom.

9. Thou shalt be arrogant, aggressive, and bold [in your deceit] since such qualities insure success.

10. Thou shalt not worry about thy sins for the Almighty has arranged a means whereby thou can be forgiven, even at thy death bed. (p. 84)

That is the American 10 Commandments in it's purest form.

That is my blessed tis of thy. my pledge of allegiance. Not.

That is my MIND CONTROL PROGRAMMING
from which I once struggled to be liberated from.

Now I see the False Authority for what it is,
a mere "threshold guardian" on my hero's journey.

One need not continue to learn what they know
And I know America if full of POOP POOP HEADS.

I know what POOP POOP HEADS call REAL is FALSE.
What they call REALITY is a fictional FEAR in their
primitive reptilian brains fight or flight response.

They live in a world of FEAR and ATTACK.
I do not. But to earn a living, I must, for a time
live in this world they have created. I make no
claim that it my own. I have no attachment
to it or to any of the outcomes fate brings.

They want a world of FEAR and ATTACK,
and they can have it. I reliquish any claim
to this upside-down world and recalim my
Self as a Being of Light. I reclaim heaven
as my home and my present reality.

a reply to: wasaka

"Well guess what, you going to see it now. Can I use your phone?" I politely ask.

"No."

"Okay, I can use my own phone. That fine."

"I need you to step out into the hall." Jack-Off says.

"Yes, sir. I can do that. I'll just be out in the parking lot smoking a cig. waiting for my check or for the cops to get here, which ever come first."

I go out and light up a fag, call 911 wait for the coppers.

I have a question. Did you call both, the non-emergency hotline and 911 in the hall with Jack-Off or only after you stepped outside? The reason I ask is it seems you could have avoided using emergency services simply by threatening or faking the call. Sometimes the passive aggressive technique works great if you're witty enough.

This problem arose from your inability to keep the job. I find it our OWN responsibility to keep even the crummiest of jobs during the holidays if we expect to provide something extra for the people we care about. Looks like you let them get the best of you in a time when it mattered the most. As a sacrifice to others, I would have gotten crapped on until the holiday was over.

a reply to: wasaka

ERK FACED GREEK SNOTT HEADS.

Fair enough,

But WTF with the racism - Greek!!!

originally posted by: eisegesis
a reply to: wasaka

"Well guess what, you going to see it now. Can I use your phone?" I politely ask.

"No."

"Okay, I can use my own phone. That fine."

"I need you to step out into the hall." Jack-Off says.

"Yes, sir. I can do that. I'll just be out in the parking lot smoking a cig. waiting for my check or for the cops to get here, which ever come first."

I go out and light up a fag, call 911 wait for the coppers.

I have a question. Did you call both, the non-emergency hotline and 911 in the hall with Jack-Off or only after you stepped outside? The reason I ask is it seems you could have avoided using emergency services simply by threatening or faking the call. Sometimes the passive aggressive technique works great if you're witty enough.

I thought of that. Then I thought it would be best to call them
as I said I would do, if only to beat them to the punch. I did want
them calling first while I try to be witty. No, this was the play.
No way around it. Sadly, it had to come to that.

I do believe this stems from your inability to keep a job. I find it our OWN responsibility to keep even the crummiest of jobs during the holidays if we expect to provide something extra for the people we care about. Looks like you let them get the best of you in a time when it mattered the most. As a sacrifice to others, I would have gotten crapped on until the holiday was over.

I have a job. I got the second job because CON-JOB
actually told me I should get a second one to help me
during this slow period in their business.

I must tell you. I quite a job to work for these guys.
And this what really messed me up, because they didn't
put me on the phone to make money after 30 days in
to the training. The issue here is not my lack of skills
or lack of job, the issue is jobs that lie to people and
then change how the pay people every week or two.

The second they gave me a day off, I got a job.
I'm not cry victim here. I'm just stating the facts.
I am not a victim, I am a participate.
And I never claimed otherwise.

originally posted by: TheConstruKctionofLight
a reply to: wasaka


>JERK FACED GREEK SNOTT HEADS.

Fair enough,

But WTF with the racism - Greek!!!

Did I say SNOT, don't remember doing that.

CON-JOB is Greek.
JACK-OFF is Italian.

The are both POOP POOP HEADS.

Together their egos fill the room and pushed me right out.