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originally posted by: whyamIhere
Both my Parents are dead.
I would chop off my right arm to see either one for 10 seconds.
Just to say I love you one more time.
Grow up...
originally posted by: MagesticEsoteric
originally posted by: whyamIhere
Both my Parents are dead.
I would chop off my right arm to see either one for 10 seconds.
Just to say I love you one more time.
Grow up...
I'm with ya. Both of mine died when I was 15. No parent is perfect...mine included but, what I would give anything to have that chance.
originally posted by: Layaly
Thank you so much for the replies I need Ats more then ever
I am reading absorbing breathing
i started typing who they are what they did what they expect but I swiped screen it got deleted..
Sum up sad bum stories: they did it all you name it (beside child abuse lol)
I ran from home at 18 couldn't take it.. I moved continents.. At home They destroyed my life and relationships over and over and over
At this point after everything (they just moved to this country too .. Mums dream to live here) they want to use my visa to stay in country open a business of some type.. for that I have to give up my life I build for myself .. job friends appartment pets ..
Example of who they are a little story.. on they visit 4y ago they killed my pet whilst I was at work burned my clothes they didn't like them.. my partner left me cause they were discussingly rude to them.. . And That's still yeah not even close to what they have done)
So now
What kind of a daughter am I to not help them out
I was told to forget them if I don't 'obey'
Mum didn't have a problem ditching me for two years when I was 11 no explanation.. She wanted to have a little life.. she asked my dad (real father) if he could take me he said what can he do lol kind
originally posted by: MagesticEsoteric
a reply to: whyamIhere
I think it's a normal reaction to see someone complain about something you don't have anymore. I'm sure the OP understands.
But dang, no family is perfect.
I just want to shake them and point out...Its good to have issues.
It means they are still around.
thank you guys for being here..
it means the world
“Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to require the most from you.” – Caroline Myss THOSE are the choices that you want to make. Why? Because the messages we get from our intuition, from our Soul, are calling us out into the unknown – and we are naturally scared of the unknown. It’s just the way that it is. So, if you are scared to make a choice: to quit a job, to start a business, to leave the relationship – and you know you must make this choice or live an unfulfilled life – then THAT is the choice that will lead you to freedom.
originally posted by: Astyanax
a reply to: Layaly
thank you guys for being here..
it means the world
Do not be deceived. We are not your friends.
We have no real interest in you. We are just assorted forum members who find your situation interesting enough to make a comment about.
Of course, we're human, and some of us do feel a certain compassion for you, just as we would for any unfortunate creature. But of you as an individual we neither know nor care.
As for our advice, beware of it.
It is freely given because it costs us nothing, and because we know that we will not be called to account if is wrong: if you follow it, you may suffer or you may prosper, but we shan't be affected. And since we don't actually know you or your circumstances, our advice is very likely to be inappropriate.
You sound as if you could use a friend or two, but the internet is not the place to find friends, believe me.
Of course, my advice is probably just as worthless as anyone else's. Still, if were you I'd make use of my own community resources -- charity outreach groups, helplines for the lonely, that kind of thing, where the support, if still somewhat impersonal, is at least professionally trained and comes from dedicated folk who really do want to help, not just to look wise and compassionate on a chat forum.
(Other members who feel I am judging them too harshly, just take what I say as applying to the guy a few posts above or below yours and not to you personally, and you will see the wisdom of it.)