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I read a study out of Stanford University, which found complaining is actually bad for your health, that the words really sunk in. The study discovered that just one-half an hour of complaining daily damages a person's brain, and here's the catch: it doesn't matter if you're the one doing the grumbling OR the one listening to it -- it registers the exact same in your brain. "Exposure to negativity peels back neurons in the hippocampus—the part of the brain used for problem solving and cognitive function. Over time, complaining becomes a habit. If you’re surrounded by complainers, then you’re more likely become one." Yikes.
- HilaryPhelps.com
Pew pew. Pew
originally posted by: Revolution9
a reply to: arpgme
But what do we do when our neighbour is very selfish, greedy, bullying, imposing and all the other horrors???
Forgive them 70 X 7 I guess. However, that process leaves little room for the finer nuances of positive relationships.
I struggle with Christ. Yes, we can just go along with Him parrot fashion, but is that sincere? Is that real?
Like the other response...if only life were that simple!
originally posted by: Peeple
a reply to: reldra
Accepting what causes tensions instead of working on improvement makes you dull.
originally posted by: arpgme
The only real choice with every thought and word, is to Complain or Appreciate.
With more Appreciation, there are more feelings of friendliness and love.
originally posted by: Peeple
a reply to: reldra
Accepting what causes tensions instead of working on improvement makes you dull.
originally posted by: InTheShadows
IMO, people who complain about things have problem solving issues. You complain when you can't do anything about the situation or person you're complaining about.