Why people judge gay people and rich people as evil - jealousy!

Think about it. The people who judge others for having a lot of money, usually wish that they had more money themselves. It's jealousy.


Most people were raised to believe that sexuality is shameful and should be considered embarassing and be kept hidden (for example, those who wish gay people would just stay "in the closet"). Most people are raised to believe that they are evil ("sinners") and need to be fixed (religion, ideology, etc.)

If some is happy, smiling, and have self-love and celebrating their sexuality, then that will make those who were raised to believe that self-love is wrong and sexuality should be shameful jealous. They want those who love themselves to be a party of the self-pity club which says self-love is wrong and we are all inherently evil and automatically need fixing. This is why the religious tells them "to repent". That simply means to be ashamed of yourself and join the self-pity club. The gay people, for an example, who falls for this, may feel ashamed and later claimed they "changed", because they didn't have a stronger, inner, self-love and so their inner light did not shine and protect them from the darkness (the clubs of self-pity and condemnation).

Self-love scares those people in these self-pity clubs/religions/movements, because to them, it is chaos, since they control others through guilt and shame.

Those who live in fear and shame want other people to join them. This usually leads to anger, fear-mongering, and condemnation when the person is struggling to get them to join them. Sometimes, it even leads to bullying and actions of aggression. Whenever someone calls you a sheep for being yourself instead of joining their self-pitying, fearful group, or whenever a sinner to try to produce shame to get you to join their self-pitying, fearful club; just remind yourself that you deserve happiness and your freedom just like everyone else.

(Keep in mind that if a person chooses to be in those groups, then that is their choice as well, this thread was just written to show that self-love and knowing you are worthy of Joy and Freedom is a powerful Shield of Light against such lower guilt/shame/condemnation energies/attitudes.)


Love and Joy

I dont have an issue with homosexuality, what i do have an issue is the self importance that comes with the LBGT movement, the arrogance, the dismissiveness of other peoples feelings or beliefs, and the outright disgusting behavior of some during the gay pride marches, butts and boobs and balls hanging out all over the place ..nobody wants to see that! eeew

a reply to: kellyjay

So people are not covering up their body enough to make you feel comfortable and therefore should cover their body up even more becauae of your discomfort with the human body.

(By the way, this thread is not about gay people. Gay people were just used as an example to discuss the actual topic along with rich people. The point of the topic was how self-pity and lack of self-love causes jealousy and condemnation towards others)

I think the word you want is greed when it comes to the wealthy. And the whole gay thing has been done to death already.

I'm not jealous of them though.

what people do this?....do you have polling data that suggest that this is true?....

I can relate to this to some degree. I'm transgender and I'm told that I am pretty which I think causes some jealousy among those less enlightened females and insecurity in phobic males. Also I'm not rich but I do pretty ok and I know that definitely causes some jealousy. At the end of the day I don't worry about it though as I do my best to stay away from those type of people and surround myself with people with good hearts.

As for rich people being evil it is unfair and absolutely false to say that all are evil but unfortunately the ones running the show are.

a reply to: arpgme

Obviously I can not speak for others.

Personally I do not think rich people are evil. I am very outspoken about what I see as the shortcomings of corporate rampant capitalism. I do not want to be rich in the kind of way that these people are. Neither do I think there should not be rich people. It is simply a question of values and caring about human society.

Regarding the LGBT community, I have no business in their affairs. I am glad that they are protected from victimisation and have the freedom to live their lives.

I think your assumptions are naïve and as a blanket statement even quite ludicrous. That is not to say some people may fit the character profile of jealousy of rich people and the LGBT community. I am curious why you have put the two together like this. That also appears to me to be a bit ludicrous.

a reply to: kellyjay

Don't go, it's simple... just like Mardi Gras where Woman flash people for beads, don't go...or don't go to the Beach right? i mean i don't know if some are considered swim suits or Lingerie

Everyone has the freedom to your opinion, and freedom to speak it out loud, Get your life... but that doesn't mean its factual or right

Why people judge gay people and rich people as evil - jealousy!

Well it must really be bad for those rich gay people.

Couldn't resist.

As far as jealousy towards rich people and them being evil...more than likely it is, but I think you will find that most people think that way about those who have never had to put in a real days work for a check that just get's you by, because how can one consider someone who has been in that position but worked hard to get where they are today. That's just my thought on that.

As for gay people...Not to sure about jealousy, but they get considered evil by those who don't understand.

What if the person was raised by rich transgender parents of the same sex, and grow up disgusted at both?

a reply to: ketsuko

I think the word you want is greed when it comes to the wealthy.

Other people know that they are worthy of having more and more (greed). You were taught against it, therefore you feel uncomfortable with it and condemn it.

This is a perfect example to the point I was making in the OP.

a reply to: arpgme

pretty sure public nudity is against the law, and when they are marching down the middle of a city where people are trying to commute to work or take their kids to school and are witnessing peoples private parts, and people simulating sex and fellatio ...yea its not something so much to be proud of is it?...js

however to the point of your post, i think ketsuko nails it ..i don't think its jealousy but rather greed, and i don't think anyone is jealous of gay people aside maybe from other gay people, gay people have nothing i want or wish i had in order for me to be "jealous"

originally posted by: Eye4NeyE
What if the person was raised by rich transgender parents of the same sex, and grow up disgusted at both?

Do you even know how astronomical the odds of a situation like that would be?

I only judge when people are in your face about it.

People who talk about "the little people"

People who are condescending, arrogant and self-aggrandizing.

People who make sure you know what they do in the bedroom, even if you'd rather not know. That is the height of trashy and rude behavior.

People who want the world to know how rich and wonderful they are, and flaunt it.

People like the Kardasians who think they are all that when all they are is rich fame whores with big butts.

People who at parades wiggle their privates in public and expect everyone to oohh and ahh and appreciate the sight. When that is the height of disgusting and pervert behavior, outside of a parade one would be arrested for the behavior.

People who insist that everyone love and accept them,
even if they are just plain awful people;
no matter what they do or don't do in the bedroom;
no matter how rich and/or famous they are.

People who think they deserve "special" treatment because they are rich or gay.

These are the people I judge and will always judge, as downright rude, and horrid people.



I'm a live and let live person. I will leave you alone, if you leave me alone.
I have no desire to know your private life, and you have no reason to know about mine.

You let me live life without having to know your private bedroom matters
and I'll gladly let you live life without knowing my private matters.

Hold hands in public, ok, little pecks in public, fine, show me your "thing" or
play tongue hockey in public, or grab butts in public,
now you made it my business and I have a right
not to want to know your private sex life, be it homosexual or heterosexual.

Carry an overpriced purse or wear overpriced clothes, fine, but don't
be snooty and make fun of my purse or clothes.

You let me live and let live, I'll respect you and have no need to be jealous of you, or hate you.

My life is the way I want it,
no need to be jealous of those

who think so much of themselves they assume others are jealous of them.

I do not hate rich people but I do not like them, not out of jealousy but because of their greed. Keep in mind, not all rich people are like this, some do not let money change who they are, but this is a very small minority of the rich.

Those born into wealth are more likely to think of themselves as "better" than others whereas those who are self made may stay humble after hitting it big, but I tend to believe that most grow huge egos in account of their bank account.

Jesus said not to store up Earthly wealth but heavenly wealth, he also said that it is hard for those who are rich to enter the kingdom. This is because rich people are so caught up in making more money that they fail to slow it down and realize that all they need, they already have in spite of money.

I do not desire money, I only make use of it because this is the world I was born into. I do not like the mega rich, but it's not out of jealousy, it's by a show of their character.

a reply to: TrappedPrincess

I'm transgender and I'm told that I am pretty which I think causes some jealousy among those less enlightened females and insecurity in phobic males.

Always going to be a hater out there somewhere.

originally posted by: Darth_Prime
a reply to: kellyjay

Don't go, it's simple... just like Mardi Gras where Woman flash people for beads, don't go...or don't go to the Beach right? i mean i don't know if some are considered swim suits or Lingerie

Everyone has the freedom to your opinion, and freedom to speak it out loud, Get your life... but that doesn't mean its factual or right

I didn't spout is as fact, its my opinion, and last i checked opinions don't equate to fact.

a reply to: kellyjay

No they don't, that was my point though. everyone can have an opinion but it doesn't mean it's fact.

i was mostly talking about:

the arrogance, the dismissiveness of other peoples feelings or beliefs

just wondering where that came from...

Rich people -meh, they have their stuff. Anger though, or contempt is different, especially when whom considers one "rich". There are vending machines in Dubai where one can put in cash for gold, is that rich?

As for the lefties and their rainbow killing cohorts, well, jealous would be the farthest term for me to give any cohesive answer.

originally posted by: arpgme
a reply to: ketsuko

I think the word you want is greed when it comes to the wealthy.

Other people know that they are worthy of having more and more (greed). You were taught against it, therefore you feel uncomfortable with it and condemn it.

This is a perfect example to the point I was making in the OP.

Not really. I could care less what others do and don't have in respect to myself. I'm happy if I can help and that's it.

But I think when others look at the "evil" rich, they get greedy and what what others have and they don't. That is greed. People assign greed to the rich, but it's just as much greed to want what you don't have from the other side.