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originally posted by: TheJourney
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: TheJourney
If homosexuality is a choice, then so is heterosexuality. But as can and has been shown, a homosexual cannot choose to be heterosexual.
I'm not asserting that it is a choice. But saying I don't understand why that is the center of the argument, since free human beings can make whatever choice they want. It wouldn't matter if it WERE a choice, it's a pointless argument. Free human beings can make their own choices, so long as they aren't harming another. And 'choice' is just a filler term for a complex process of how sexual identity is formed, as you say in general not just with homosexuals but people in general. It shouldn't, anyways, be seen like just some conscious decision like what type of cereal to buy. And I'm not asserting that either way, just saying it doesn't matter.
Well, we have no right to outlaw personal choices that don't harm others I the first place, so I don't like the premise of 'since it's not a choice, we'll accept it. Freedom of choice in life is extremely important!
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: TheJourney
Well, we have no right to outlaw personal choices that don't harm others I the first place, so I don't like the premise of 'since it's not a choice, we'll accept it. Freedom of choice in life is extremely important!
Oh of course we have no right to outlaw anyone's choices as long as they don't harm anyone else.
The findies are the one who made the claim that it's a choice and that homosexuality is harmful so therefore its bad. Hence the reason why we have the debate.
Like you said, it doesn't matter if it's a choice or not. The point is... it MATTERS to the Fundamentalists.
originally posted by: and14263
a reply to: Martianlanded
I don't think many people still believe it is a choice, it is after all an old fashioned view. I however do not believe you are born gay (or straight?)...
Gay - not a choice but not born that way
originally posted by: OpenMindedRealist
a reply to: mOjOm
If words are so insignificant, why does a gay couple care whether or not they are married? Why is the term 'civil union' not acceptable?
One person has already made the ignorant preumption that my argument is tied to religion, so let me make my position clear. I am all for liberty. I couldn't care less what consenting adults do in private, so long as no harm is being done to anyone. I simply believe the institution of marriage is worth preserving as a special contract between a man and woman.
Society benefits from a man and woman choosing to partner for life. Same sex unions serve no purpose other than to make those involved feel good and entitle them to the same legal benefits. If I had my way, marriage and same sex unions would be treated the same in regards to taxation and the law.
okay
Stop being hypothetical and apologetic for same-sex parenting, stick to the immediate family.
I can argue many people dont have siblings, such as myself, and moved to a nation with no family ties, such as myself.
So stop running away from the argument by comparing apples and oranges
we are comparing the household, not the local community or the extended family that are not a central part of every ones life.
Just like the NRA (which has less than 1% of Americans among their members)
originally posted by: BuzzyWigs
a reply to: babybunnies
Just like the NRA (which has less than 1% of Americans among their members)
Please source this.
Where did you get it, what site is it from?
originally posted by: thebtheb
...civil union is not enough because it's not really about ANYTHING except being accepted by society, and not rejected. Your idea of preserving marriage as a special thing between a man and a woman is simply exclusive, discriminating, and so gays don't like it.
Society benefits from straight people who have sex but decide never to have kids, who can't have kids? Should they also not be allowed to marry? What about homosexual couples who adopt unwanted children all the time? Does society not benefit from that?