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What gets me as a male are the mixed messages us guys are getting from the opposite sex.
We're told that "skimpy outfits do not imply consent", and we see women going nuts over a movie that glorifies domination and date rape.
To a 13 year old boy, what kind of message is he getting?
originally posted by: peck420
originally posted by: ~Lucidity
Well, for one thing it's not exactly porn.
It was designed in a manner to provide sexual arousal.
That makes it porn by both the legal and literary definitions.
There's substantially more overlap between the aesthetic and the erotic than the erotic and the pornographic. Unquestionably, erotica and pornography both present the human organism in a manner that's sexually compelling. But the aim of the pornographer is hardly to help his or her (most likely his) audience rejoice in the human form--or in some way honor physical intimacy, or the joys of the flesh.
Rather, the objective (typically leaving little or nothing to the imagination) is to "turn on" the viewer. It's less evocative or suggestive than exhibitionist. The unabashed goal is simple and straightforward: titillation and immediate, intense arousal (skip the foreplay, please!). Or, to put it even more bluntly, an instantaneous stirring of the genitals. [Source]
originally posted by: AgentSmith
So why is it so cool to glamorise a fictional account of something that few would find acceptable if it was presented as reality?
So why is it so cool to glamorise a fictional account of something that few would find acceptable if it was presented as reality?
originally posted by: MystikMushroom
What gets me as a male are the mixed messages us guys are getting from the opposite sex.
We're told that "skimpy outfits do not imply consent", and we see women going nuts over a movie that glorifies domination and date rape.
To a 13 year old boy, what kind of message is he getting?
And once again, going with friends to watch porn is really strange to me. Perhaps I'm sheltered...do a lot of people sit around and watch porn movies/videos with their friends "just because"?
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: new_here
Glad you clarified I wouldn't of been able to control myself otherwise.