The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

originally posted by: sirhumperdink
a reply to: Truthbadger

thats kind of how it works
if nobody thinks about the situation (which is true of most) the only thing gleened from it is that you are willing to submit

The subconscious is a real b/tch. So is long term conditioning.

Basically, it's being said that selflessness warrants pity &/or disdain. We live in a world where we are innately driven towards coupling, but coupling has become wholly corrupted by & dependent on the materialistic system we've all been oh so conditioned to worship. "Feminism" is just another byproduct of Keynesian economic failure, where a persons value surely can't be equal to anything other than their wealth/status. If selflessness = submissiveness then I'm happy to never be considered a dominant alpha male.

a reply to: Indigent


It really wouldn't hurt many men that want women to live with them like they are married to just go ahead and marry the woman. At some point the virtues need to be valued and not the bad things used as an excuse for non-commitment.

There may be some justification to the argument that two many younger men these days have witnessed that ravages to a marriage gone very bad but this argument doesn't cover the thing very well. In totality anyway.

a reply to: Realtruth

My son is coming up 9 in 2015, and I have already sat down and explained sex to him, as he asked what it was. His mother lets him watch whatever he wants. I can only hope I've educated him well, and that he remembers what I taught him.

I find that explaining something to him, allows him to broach a subject without feeling like hes bad or something.

I've said to him no matter what, he can always come to me with anything and I won't get mad, most parents get mad as # and their kids won't talk to them.

He talks to me about everything, and I like that he does that.

a reply to: Truthbadger

So yea, people can say porn isn't an issue. I say 15 year old kids who have unfettered access to the most hardcore porn is a cause for concern.

Yepp. You're right. Children should not be exposed to such sexual things that adults have consented to equally, so as to afford themselves and others an opportunity to explore and enact sexually mature fantasies.

When minors are involved, PARENTS have the RESPONSIBILITY of both educating minors as to their budding sexuality in par with that sexual development (unique to each individual and proportional to their sexual maturity), as well as taking ACTION as the childs caretaker by controlling what that child has access to.

And when it comes to such modern day things as electronic communication devices (phones) and the internet, there is something inherently wrong that parents today do not prevent their children from accessing such things. Where most will say "How can I?", I say it is as simple as not giving them smartphones, or selectively blocking access to various features.

All of this is readily available as options to such technology. It is merely inertia and complacency that cause this lais·sez-faire "who gives a #" attitude of humans that shouldn't be parents in the first place due to there unwillingness to BE the parent that they chose to become, or unwillingly become due to making wrong choices. Either way, it is their responsibility.

And to those who say "It's too hard to understand" or "how am I supposed to stay on top of this stuff?", I say, strap on a pair and ACCEPT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS PARENTS.

-NF

a reply to: Truthbadger

I raised with two brothers, what my fellow squaddies do in there can't be any worse than what a couple hormone riddled teenage boys do.

a reply to: Logarock

Don't marriages these days last an average of 4 years or something? I'll have to look it up but I'm pretty sure its about that figure I recently read.

Cheating is actually celebrated and made OK in some TV/Films. Lot of infidelity these days.

a reply to: ScientificRailgun

I have to say I admire your ability to stay put in this thread and express your views.

And on the topic of porn, the issue really comes down to parenting. Yes porn is easily and freely accessible on the internet. But parents should be taking an active role in the online life of their children, educating them about what's right, what's wrong. Even installing the appropriate "nanny" software to prevent children from accessing explicit websites. Explain to them that porn is a very a unrealistic depiction of natural sex. There are tons of things you can do as a parent to help raise your child right.

a reply to: ScientificRailgun

I salute your doggedness. The toilets are pretty horrible out there too. Bastion has proper toilets, FoB's have #huts.

a reply to: Truthbadger

Well thank you for that at least. I can admittedly be a little stubborn at times, you did raise some excellent points. I guess deep down I'm still crass young lady from occupied west texas.

Any man who gives up on society because women are too MEEEEEAAANN is nothing more than a loser getting weeded out of the gene pool. Natural selection at its finest.

Think about it, do women avoid you just because you're a man, OR because you're a thirty something gamer living with your mother posting at MRA forums?

a reply to: ScientificRailgun

Most do not. Average age of parents has fallen dramatically. Most parents now are in their mid to late 20s while their kid is coming up to teenage years.

The problem is, the parents are often still young themselves, and don't really see that as being an issue. Only since I turned 30 this year have I really begun to see my parenting in a different light.

I'm still a fun loving dad that does everything with him, but now I make sure his homework is done, hes making his bed and cleaning his room. Some discipline will do him good.

For instance, he can play the Xbox on a Saturday/Sunday only when he has cleaned his room, and (weather permitting) has been outside to play football or such.

He resisted at first, but now before I am even awake on a Sunday he has cleaned his mess, made his bed and is ready for breakfast and to go out. Positive reinforcement, was the key for me. Happy son who cleans up after himself and actually wants to play outside making tree houses and such.

a reply to: ScientificRailgun

My Ex Fiance was from Texas. Her "tenacity" was part of the attraction. Can't be attracted to someone with less drive/passion then me.

a reply to: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns

I think some men are opting out of the whole "lets get drunk and # on the first date" things.

I know I am. I want substance and passion. Not giving a random woman taxi fare on a Saturday morning.

a reply to: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns

Easy there killer. Perhaps read a bit more into the thread before firing off generalized, hateful statements. What you said makes you part of the problem, not part of the solution.

originally posted by: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns
Any man who gives up on society because women are too MEEEEEAAANN is nothing more than a loser getting weeded out of the gene pool. Natural selection at its finest.

Think about it, do women avoid you just because you're a man, OR because you're a thirty something gamer living with your mother posting at MRA forums?

Men are making conscious efforts to not pursue commitments that statistically are failing at a high rate.

a reply to: Truthbadger

Yes, exactly. Good parenting goes MILES for keeping kids informed and making smart choices. I also agree with you, young parents are becoming more common, and many of these new parents were raised by the TV and Internet. The problem begins and ends with proper parenting.

a reply to: ScientificRailgun

Agreed. Until that time the next generation is mostly screwed.

originally posted by: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns
Any man who gives up on society because women are too MEEEEEAAANN is nothing more than a loser getting weeded out of the gene pool. Natural selection at its finest.

Think about it, do women avoid you just because you're a man, OR because you're a thirty something gamer living with your mother posting at MRA forums?

This goes to my point that "love" has become a deformed mutant that thrives purely on illusory status & materialistic priorities of perceived self & projected value.

originally posted by: Truthbadger
a reply to: ScientificRailgun

My Ex Fiance was from Texas. Her "tenacity" was part of the attraction. Can't be attracted to someone with less drive/passion then me.

My problem with women is I have no drive or passion. & apparently I'm a selfless submissive.

Ironically, I was born & raised in TX
(ages 0-13)

a reply to: SearchLightsInc

Your rant against feminism is pure ignorance.

Ma'am, I do believe you miss the point. Maybe the ignorance is yours.