a reply to: mblahnikluver
Being biologically related to someone, according to the accepted current social conventions and mores, means that you have a certain bond with them,
an unbreakable connection of blood and familiarity.
However, it has been my experience that no matter what chains of blood link two people together, or even a number of people together, the problems
come about when one is shown that one of their family members is about as loveable as a nicked artery.
At this point, one is faced, not only with a certain amount of subconscious guilt about ones dislike for ones family member, but also with the
possibility that ones acquaintances will look poorly upon that dislike, on the grounds that family is considered sacred, because of the prevailing,
and erroneous social conventions on the way family ought to be. The social stigmas against which you would be battling as a TWIN who dislikes their
sibling, is vast.
Frankly, blood is not enough of a reason to let a person screw with your life, your peace, your heart, and ultimately, your well being. If the woman
to whom you refer is as air headed and toxic as you describe, then despite the fact that it will be difficult for some to accept, you are under zero
obligation to follow through with a continuing relationship with this person. Clearly their behaviour is harmful to you, as is keeping up the pretence
of unity, despite the totally unacceptable behaviour you are encountering.
If you ask me, you are better off without her noxious input, and you should feel no shame in excising her from your life. If she is going to behave
in a cancerous fashion, then treat her like a tumour.
edit on 23-10-2014 by TrueBrit because: Added detail.