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originally posted by: Sparkymedic
a reply to: muse7
Have a shot or two of whiskey. That'll take the edge off.
But more seriously, do you know where this anxiety stems from? Seeing as it is family, do you feel the need to be a different person around them? If so, why? Why do their opinions of you matter? Yes, family is important, but not if they aren't supportive of who you truly are.
originally posted by: Lysergic
a reply to: muse7
a suggestion, but certainly not a remedy, when you start to get those thoughts, do you tell yourself that its an irrational thought? I know with anxiety it can spiral out and compound upon itself to terrifying levels instantaneously. Another thing is worrying about past/present, you can't allow yourself to be consumed worried about the possibility of some bad future event, you have to live in the now or as they say Go with the Flow? Check in with yourself.
originally posted by: Lysergic
a reply to: occrest
Sounds a bit agoraphobia?
That must be a burden for you, not being able to shop normally. I'm sorry you are going through such things, I hope you are able to find path to help you.
I know we all like to pretend we are lone wolves, but we are indeed social animals, with social needs.
originally posted by: muse7
originally posted by: Sparkymedic
a reply to: muse7
Have a shot or two of whiskey. That'll take the edge off.
But more seriously, do you know where this anxiety stems from? Seeing as it is family, do you feel the need to be a different person around them? If so, why? Why do their opinions of you matter? Yes, family is important, but not if they aren't supportive of who you truly are.
I think it's due to the fact that I'm going to be around people that I barely know. Whenever I'm out in a public place I feel as if there's a spotlight on me and everyone's eyes are on me, watching my every move then I get extremely self-conscious. Thoughts start racing through my mind.
Am I walking weird?
Do I look funny?
Is my facial expression appropriate?
Am I dressed good enough? Maybe I'm not?
originally posted by: Destinyone
a reply to: muse7
Words of wisdom for you dear one.
Stop being afraid of what could go wrong.
Start being positive about what could go right.
Des
There's going to be some people there that I have not seen for a few years and right now I'm a nervous wreck, I've already thrown up once.